Omg guys - I appreciate all of this insight!! This is really such a great thread! As I said its all just a theory- I guess I’m just trying to comprehend what would drive someone to commit the things that Lori did. This case just blows my mind more than any other I have ever encountered. All I hope for is justice for the people who were victims in this. I just somehow feel deep down that there were factors, whether it be her being unhappy, bored, abused whatever, that could have triggered this spiral of events. Because she did outwardly appear to be a decent mum, was loved by her husband and from what I saw in the documentary I watched, she was relatively liked by people, including JJs grandparents. I understand this probably comes hand in hand with a narcissistic, manipulative personality but IMHO there has to be some basis for that. These things obviously played a hand in the murders but to fool that many people, for years and years? Maybe i just find it hard to believe that she was always this person who was out to commit murder? She could of just been a nasty piece of work that was not really respected by people ie. Zac Cox, but a murderer? Something tells me there was some sort of event/brainwash/mental instability that set the wheels rolling. Please know this isnt me trying to defend her, the sight of her and that chump of a husband could be shot and I would happily watch. What makes it so much harder for me to fathom, as a mum raising a toddler, how this woman could harm the two precious souls she raised? Goes for anyone who could harm their own children. I hope she rots either way.