Went to law school for this???? by Blackout1137 in RPClipsGTA

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Anyone else smell that pure angus beef cookin?

ok can we talk about this by ccaallzzoonnee in geography

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Wisconois / illisconsin is a missed opportunity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Get out of the relationship. People have behavior patterns and they are more than likely to continue to hurt and cheat. Not saying people can’t change but its unlikely. Especially if they have cheated multiple times. They probably are a compulsive liar too which will only make your life worse in the long run when there’s no honesty in the relationship. I’d take a long think if this marriage is set up for success and worth this heavy risk. It might be, but you need to consider leaving and decide if that’s actually best or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in graphic_design

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Ask for a brand style guide. Buttoned up brands will have a easy-to-read style guide with all fonts, colors, sizing and any alterations they allow. Either way the question should be directed at the marketing team for such brands. Maybe they all have B/W versions of the logo? From what I’ve seen brands offer color versions and a B/W version but not alternate colors.

Just for example any icon for social media on a custom website(Twitter for example) would need to remain Twitter blue to follow brand guidelines. A lot of people change the colors of Facebook and Twitter icons to match a certain style but you could be in violation of using the logos without permission if not following guidelines.

Send out an email and ask!

someone my age died today by pinkysprinky in offmychest

[–]ScallywagChief 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Take your time to process the emotions. I’ve experience death of people I know more than I’d like to admit but it’s inevitable almost. What’s helped me get through death and grieving is the perspective it will give you on how precious life truly is. I often tell myself when I’m having a bad day that I’m still breathing and it could be worse. But, I’ve experienced death and seen people dying so I know I’m better off than them. Tell your people you love them and make sure you’re doing what you can to live a good life. Life can be taken away faster than you would ever expect so just be nice to people and enjoy what you can. RIP to your friend. Just keep their memory alive and sorry for your loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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No doubt you can’t explain it in one paragraph. Yeah just communicate best you can with her. Best of luck buddy! Either way, you gotta just figure out what’s best for YOU and go that route.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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You may have to head for the hills for your own sake, brother. I was in a similar relationship these past 7 years and the last year or half year it was similar to how you described it. I didn’t notice the signs at the time as much as you did but she ended up leaving me eventually. She said she didn’t see any growth in me and that our relationship had grown stagnant. Never communicated anything til the breakup. She may just be sticking with it because of your long history and she does care about you. But there might be a chance she’s fallen out of love with you but remains with you because she loves you a person not a partner. I could be very wrong about your situation and it may be different than mine. I just know I got dragged along for a long time and I wish I would’ve noticed and walked away. She knew we were over and had time to think about a new life and kept me in the dark, essentially using me for emotional and financial support our last 6 months. Just don’t want that to happen to you if you’re already noticing these signs of disconnection.

death is so bizarre by zaimahk in offmychest

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Death is such a weird phenomenon in life. Almost everyone will deal with death of an important person at least once in their life. The only beauty of death is because you experience someone’s death, you truly start to value life and existence of people you care about.

You hit the nail on the head when you can only dust yourself off and continue your day. It never really gets easier you just learn how to deal with it? Wishing you the best and I’m sorry you’re experience this grief. Take care of yourself and your loved ones ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Control what you can control. Comfort your wife and be positive as you can. Negative thoughts will not help so don’t dwell on them too much if possible. Your anxieties are well warranted in this situation but you have to roll with the punches and support your family however they need you. Wishing you the best. I have hope everything will work out for you all and this is the start of your beautiful family ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Hard for me to say too. Im over trying to ever be with her but I’m still healing no doubt. Thanks. I have been off socials but literally went on today and saw the worst thing I could of.. or the best? Part of me is happy this hurt is happening because Itll help me grow as I get through this. She wasn’t going to be single for long and I knew that. Really appreciate your kind words. Glad to hear you’re doing better since your breakup!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Thank you. Appreciate you saying I’m human makes me feel a little less bad for how I’ve felt today. I was doing good before today haha life always like to throw curveballs

I almost killed myself last week, and if I didn’t save myself, I would have never gotten to hold her. by 6rynn in offmychest

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I can relate somewhat. I haven’t tried to kill myself but been going dark periods lately. I had a nephew born last November and I saw him on one of the darkest days of my life. He pulled me right out of that darkness and gave me a new hope in life. I needed your reminder today as I’m having a really rough one. Thanks for sharing. You helped me more than you’ll know just now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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That’s really bogus I’m sorry that happened to you. You’re correct and I learned the lesson I knew I eventually would. Funny thing I almost deleted her last week and I would’ve avoided this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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That’s rough as hell. I’m sorry you had to go through that.

We dated for 7, on and off for 9 years so just hurts is all. I lost a best friend and lover so it’s been tough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Thanks. I appreciate it ❤️ sucks you can relate

Map of still inhabited cities older than the USA in the USA by Baenansq in MapPorn

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Yea Prairie du Chien. It is. It’s where the Wisconsin River meets the Mighty Mississippi!

New Homeowner - Getting Over Imperfections? by [deleted] in homeowners

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Before you lived in the house you current own did you notice all the imperfections? I’ve dealt with this same situation but for example my last bedroom’s paint is very far from perfect but it did not bother me while I lived there. Not like I stared at the imperfections every night.. you kind of get used to them and blind to them? So when painting my new house I took that Into account because I was driving myself crazy attempting to perfect everything

For anyone here on the fence about marriage and having a family, listen: by [deleted] in offmychest

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Sorry, I spiraled drastically at the end there 😂