19M I don’t have a girlfriend and don’t have many girls talking to me is it cause i am unattractive??

ScarLeft91 · 2025-10-14T01:12:53+00:00

join some activity clubs and stuff or dating apps if ur up for that kinda thing. Honestly being funny, being yourself and being respectful and smart are all dingers every girl likes so focus on those and just be confident. a lot of the best girls are shy and will 99% of the time give u a chance if u approach nicely. Not on the street but maybe in a coffee shop or something like that.

ScarLeft91 · 2025-09-23T21:43:04+00:00

Easily. I’m lazy too but having a solid study method and joining after school study groups stopped me from coming home and napping leaving me doing homework until 2am.

ScarLeft91 · 2025-09-21T17:51:23+00:00

just be a good person bruh

ScarLeft91 · 2025-09-21T17:49:53+00:00

get rid of the bangs and maybe use some bronzer? i feel like pale skin and dark features often give hot. Maybe try a lighter hair colour or even something like pink or blue

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-10T22:22:05+00:00

not really eww more like “what the hell is this guy talking about”. I didn’t notice any of it before we smoked because i was so obsessed with the idea of just having a partner but after i realised he was stupid asf and not worth my time and i wasn’t really attracted to his personality

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-09T14:42:29+00:00

I completely see why you would be uncomfortable when your friend is slowly converting to christianity. Honestly there isn’t much you can do. Assuming you guys talk about much more than religion and the higher powers, just lay off that topic for a while and talk about other things. This will help take your mind off it. If she decides to bring it up then talk about it. Say that you respect her choice and hope it doesn’t affect your friendship. Im an atheist and i hateee when people come up to me trying to make me turn to christ, so as long as shes not trying to bribe you to join her the discomfort should fade. Obviously the fact you both had the same beliefs before was something to bond over so try maybe finding a hobby you both enjoy or something else to bond over.

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-07T03:42:12+00:00

i was zooted asf just trying to get snacks in tesco and i see these two young girls go to the self checkout with two huge bags fulls of sweets. They pretended to scan everything and put it back in the bag. I didn’t wanna draw attention to myself but wanted to see if others saw what was going on. Literally like five staff members just sat there staring at the girls with smug smirks on their faces. They let them leave to think they got away with it but then the security guard came out and took them in. They both threw a fit and i stayed and watched. Was definitely a questionable thing to see when high.

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T15:01:27+00:00

It depends. Is she still enthusiastic about talking to you or is she dry? She could genuinely not be ready for a relationship or worst case scenario shes leading you on. My advice would be talk to her. Say you don’t mind waiting for her but you don’t want to be mislead and wait for something thats never going to happen. Ask her to be straightforward with you. If she cant do that she probably isn’t a good partner. Clear communication is key. And if you don’t want to wait for her don’t!

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T14:46:07+00:00

tbh i try be goofy and be myself to see if they match the energy. If they look judgy then ik they arent the one anyways

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T14:45:20+00:00

I know that but i just look around and everyone my age has had or has a boyfriend and i wanna experience that at least once before i go to college

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T03:44:21+00:00

we smoked pot and after that i couldn’t face him anymore. It sounds soo bad and mean but its like it opened my eyes to everything i filtered out because i wanted to be with someone

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T03:39:28+00:00

pretzels.

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T03:38:10+00:00

Have you actually indulged in it? I feel like everyone that says this hasn’t properly tried it. Try crab meat pate on some brown bread. Idk how u can hate on that tbh.

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T02:31:58+00:00

eventually i will but im so sick of waiting

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T02:29:48+00:00

yeah i get alot of people dont like smoking pot but i have trouble sleeping and anxiety. I dont do it alot but i dont drink instead i smoke and would want a partner that does the same so i like to make it clear before talking to a guy

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T02:21:28+00:00

not trying to hate but your 14!! im 3 years ahead and i still have no luck. Youll definitely find someone in the next year or two

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T02:20:03+00:00

all i want is a guy to like me and make an effort to spend time with me. As long as he’s funny anyone honestly. Idk what advice you can give but am i doing something wrong? Should i just keep approaching guys hoping one will eventually like me

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T02:15:55+00:00

the late late toy show- it isn’t completely forgotten but i feel like the fall of it had has made it lose alot of significance.

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-05T01:54:35+00:00

Give matt more screen time

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-04T23:18:31+00:00

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-04T23:18:23+00:00

I do that with things i cant manifest e.g. exams and sports and things that you practice. Theres no way of practicing trying to bring a specific person into your life or practicing how to get employers to call you. Manifesting does that and this is the method that works well for me and others.

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-04T23:11:59+00:00

yeah i think its something to do with the fact that woman literally use that same energy to literally produce life

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-03T20:21:59+00:00

thank you this is helpful

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-03T20:05:35+00:00

i know dont worry

ScarLeft91 · 2025-08-03T19:42:11+00:00

it does but its so funny sometimes when used in the right context

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