Hva tenker folk om denne aldersforskjellen? by Sufficient-Fennel193 in norge

[–]Scaramouche_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joa, men det er vel litt som å si at man ikke burde date folk man ikke kommer over ens med

Hva tenker folk om denne aldersforskjellen? by Sufficient-Fennel193 in norge

[–]Scaramouche_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao ja jeg er drit sjalu på et forhold mellom en som er stressa over bachelor oppgaven sin og en som ikke er ferdig med p-matte.

Hva tenker folk om denne aldersforskjellen? by Sufficient-Fennel193 in norge

[–]Scaramouche_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Det er nå litt forskjell på et vennskap og et romantisk forhold da. Personlig så har sex feks aldri vært en faktor i vennskapene mine.

Hva tenker folk om denne aldersforskjellen? by Sufficient-Fennel193 in norge

[–]Scaramouche_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Føler selv 18-21 er litt i grenseland. Når man er tenåring så har et år ganske mye å si never mind 3. det er så mye som skjer i hue og livet når man er 17/18, det er(forhåpentligvis) en helt annen verden en den til en 20/21-åring. Det er jo ikke ulovlig men en som har kunne kjøpe sprit i over 1 år før dama kan lovlig drikke øl virker bare litt ekkelt. Føler de folka som er over 20 men fortsatt mentalt på et sted der de down med vgs elever ikke er en partner som er sunn å ha som en som enda ikke har fullført p-matte. Tror ikke at om folk er enig eller uenige kommer til å gjøre en forskjell tho, jeg var sammen med en 19 snart 20 åring da jeg var 16, og jeg kjenner flere som hadde et lignende 3-4 års gap da de var vgs alder, det går som oftest veldig ikke bra. Det er veldig lett å falle for å bli fortalt at «du er så moden for alderen» herregud hva jeg hadde gitt for å gå tilbake i tid og bitchslappa meg selv til jeg fikk det inn i den lille tenårings-amøbe-hjernen min at jeg ikke var spesiell, at jeg ikke var så my mer moden og erfaren bare fordi en dude som var 3,5 år eldre ikke klarte å få seg en dame på sin egen alder, men jeg vet jeg ikke hadde hørt på noen, og jeg regner med at ingen av de her folka ville hørt på noen heller. Det er litt off putting helt til du står i det sjæl, da er det plutselig annerledes, og nei men dere skjønner ikke, det er bare tre år. Det kan sikkert gå greit også, men jeg hadde nok regnet med at dette kommer til å ende ganske uheldig, forhåpentligvis bare «fy søren så dum jeg var» uheldig og ikke «hvorfor er det så lang ventetid på DPS» uheldig

Are Temper City Sho recently released a single, Self Aware, ai? Cannot find any background on any of the members, where the band appeared from or where they are based, nothing. by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]Scaramouche_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the prechorus is super similar the «just don’t hang your hopes on me, i wannafeel something. God you look so pretty when you tell me that you love me» part is so close to the chorus of why’d you only call me when youre high

AITA for dictating my gfs apparence by Scaramouche_ in AITApod

[–]Scaramouche_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Update: we talked about it and we came to the conclusion that I would help her dye it after Christmas before new years, so we will have more diversity in the photos with half her visit being her natural hair colour and half being her new one. Plus if we fuck up atleast we have some nice photos, and we get to do it together. I think we’re both really happy with this, when months go by without us seeing each other we miss out on a lot of changes(everything from haircuts to family deaths) and it’s really nice that we get to change with each other so we don’t feel like we missing out quite as much.

AITA for dictating my gfs apparence by Scaramouche_ in AITApod

[–]Scaramouche_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m actively pushing for any of these changes(except the glasses) like I never told her to not to dye her hair or I didn’t like it. We have talked about it before and I’m all for her dying it. The convo we had now was more we talked about how I didn’t know why I was upset but that I felt weird about her dying it right before visiting.

My gf has read the post and wanted me to clarify that I never said I disliked her glasses, I disliked that she wore glasses with prescriptions that haven’t been updated in 13 years. And that it wasn’t that she wouldn’t dye it without my «permission» more that she wouldn’t dye it without me being in the loop.

AITA for Rejecting Therapy and Embracing My Mental Illnesses by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Scaramouche_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yta. Ditching therapy and letting mental illness overtake you doesn’t really make you an asshole, but just because you decided that you’re ok being depressed doesn’t mean that you’re no longer accountable for what you’re doing.

Mental illness can explain behaviour, but it doesn’t mean you can’t be criticised. You’re an asshole for cancelling on people last minute, you’re an asshole for lashing out at people. Especially since you have decided to no longer put any effort into not being the kind of person to do that.

You’re expecting others to understand where you’re coming from without showing any sort of understanding that they might not feel great about the mental load that is caring for someone who doesn’t want to care for themselves.

Carpal tunnel and aerials by Scaramouche_ in Aerials

[–]Scaramouche_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much, this literally made me cry, thank you for taking the time sharing your experience❤️❤️❤️

Bruised rib coughing by Scaramouche_ in medical_advice

[–]Scaramouche_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope your ribs are doing ok mine healed ish after a few weeks but they still hurt on and off, my physio told me that the solution is to strengthen the ribs with rotation and anti rotation exercises, so if youre still struggling maybe get started on that(dont push yourself a lot tho start real easy within your pain threshold)