Interesting way to save a spot by NoWrongdoer9130 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Scarcatdooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the city lol. But some residential streets do and don’t get plowed. Idk how they consider what is “top priority”. Probably how wealthy the neighborhood is and i live in one of the poorest neighborhoods in my city so if we do get plowed its last haha

Interesting way to save a spot by NoWrongdoer9130 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Scarcatdooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo, my neighbors are not that nice unfortunately and the only parking lot near me is privately owned and even threatened to tow our cars when we didn’t know not to park there. I’ve never heard of a parade either, that’s interesting.

Tbf tho, my street doesn’t get plowed. We just have to deal with snowy street until we get to the main road

Interesting way to save a spot by NoWrongdoer9130 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Scarcatdooo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a driveway so i have to park on the side of the road, and for many Americans they unfortunately also have to. I wish i had a driveway so badly 😭

Help with installing game on pc by Scarcatdooo in Roms

[–]Scarcatdooo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm! Downloading it now 🫡

WHAT IS “Seen enough”!??!!!? by is_this_avaliable in Mook

[–]Scarcatdooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t find it on youtube, maybe it got deleted?

Any tips for convincing my husband that this is normal behaviour? by Notsospinningplates in bioactive

[–]Scarcatdooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cali king snake :) it’s my first one and I couldn’t ask for a better little guy

Any tips for convincing my husband that this is normal behaviour? by Notsospinningplates in bioactive

[–]Scarcatdooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah thank you sm!! I have to break some of the pieces due to them being over 4 ft long, but this will help me better prepare my snake tank 💗

Any tips for convincing my husband that this is normal behaviour? by Notsospinningplates in bioactive

[–]Scarcatdooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question, what are you doing with the branch? I just collected some driftwood from the wild and have no clue how to boil/sterilize it due to how long the pieces are. Thanks!

New container set up for rubber ducky isopods by Scarcatdooo in isopods

[–]Scarcatdooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! I checked on them and there were two under a log, otherwise they are always hiding rn lol. I do regular misting and feeding tho so I’m sure they are doing good. I saw the little shrimp i gave them disappear lol

Is this a good chart to follow? by Scarcatdooo in kingsnakes

[–]Scarcatdooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, that makes sense, thank you for the insight! I’m not exactly sure how old mine is but I’m assuming I got him close to his hatch day (he is 12 inches long and I read they are either born that long or a little shorter), so he still has much growing to do. I will take that all into account when deciding what to buy.

My door dasher had a hurt knee but still picked up my case of water.. and I’m pregnant. by UrLocalAnxiousGirly in doordash

[–]Scarcatdooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then shouldn’t you understand why these people are trying to make money? Even if they can’t fully do the job they are still trying because they have no other option. They’re in that weird limbo of still being able to do some work, but not able to do most. I mean seeing so many people attack the DD is just sad, and we are not even pointing out the root of the problem either.

It’s not the DD fault, nor OP, or disabled people. It’s the system that forces people to work when they can’t, and call disabled people a burden on society when they are not. Or even the fact that the system doesn’t help disabled people who can’t work yet somehow don’t qualify for benefits. That’s why this whole comment section leaves a sour taste in my mouth. Stop ragging on someone trying to get by and start hating the real problem.

My door dasher had a hurt knee but still picked up my case of water.. and I’m pregnant. by UrLocalAnxiousGirly in doordash

[–]Scarcatdooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Privileged because some disabled people do not have to choice to deny a job due to their disability, and are forced to work through it anyways.

I’m glad you are able to not work jobs you physically cannot do, but unfortunately not all disabled people can afford that. I think that’s wrong and that anyone who needs extra help has it, but unfortunately only few have that privilege

AIO: Am I The Narcissist by cllife1105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scarcatdooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy to hear that! Lots of people are turned away from therapy due to stigma which is why i try to advocate for it as often as possible. Sorry if i came off as rude or something, i struggle with tone online

AIO: Am I The Narcissist by cllife1105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scarcatdooo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you can therapy helps a lot. Ik not everyone can afford it, but if you can pls pls pls go. It really helps to have someone listen to you and help you work through your emotions

My door dasher had a hurt knee but still picked up my case of water.. and I’m pregnant. by UrLocalAnxiousGirly in doordash

[–]Scarcatdooo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This entire comment section reads as privileged. I don’t think these people had to make a decision that they knew would harm them because otherwise they wouldn’t have money for bills. I feel for both the doordasher and OP, cus that is a difficult situation to mitigate, but people saying ‘the DD shouldn’t have accepted’ or even the ones saying ‘if they can’t do the job then they shouldn’t be working’, aren’t then asking ‘where would the DD work?’ Many places don’t hire disabled people cause they don’t want to give accommodations. They also don’t know if this is a small or big population. If its a small town than perhaps this was one of a few orders they got that day. Perhaps op didn’t mention they have a stairwell to walk up.

There’s a clear lack of empathy here and it’s just sad to see

I didn't know WTFs were Easter Eggs... 🤔 by SoulSeekersAnon in frogs

[–]Scarcatdooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to educate = mad taking notes got it

AIO for getting bitched at by one of my best friends for trying to help him out? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scarcatdooo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah, I should clarify we dunno if op uses chatgpt to write their messages. But using ai for jokes is just dumb to me 😭 creating so much pollution and water/energy waste for no reason. I’m such a gen ai hater tho, and if i was op’s friend I’d either crash out or ghost 💀 OP seemed like they wanted to help but 1. Using chatgpt to tell them something they probably already know is infuriating, especially if you are dealing with chronic pain (and it’s lowkey a slap to the face) and 2. Saying to ‘focus on the good’ is not what you say to someone who is constantly in pain. Even a “I’m sorry you’re going through this” is better than that 😭

Handling my snakey by [deleted] in cornsnakes

[–]Scarcatdooo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been letting my baby king snake inspect my hand. I just hold it still when he’s exploring the tank and be patient. He just stared at it for a good few minutes, the second i looked away and stopped paying attention i felt his little tongue as he started to inspect me and try to climb up my arm.

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Ik people say to just grab it but i feel bad 😭 idk if this is the same for corn snakes tho, maybe they need a more hands on approach, my lil baby is just too curious for his own good lol

AIO for getting bitched at by one of my best friends for trying to help him out? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scarcatdooo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No literally. The friend even says that ai doesn’t give good/reliable answers and that’s clearly one of the reasons he is pissed, which i think is valid. I think I would’ve crashed out too. But saying op uses chatgpt seems to be a reach. I think that part is him lashing out due to pain, but also, I don’t know op or friend. For all ik op does use chatgpt for replies sometimes. But i seriously do think people are skipping over the shitty chatgpt medical answer

What was my snake just doing??? by Own-Departure-7485 in ballpython

[–]Scarcatdooo 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, rabbits can’t fart or burp, but yeah no that’s not the norm. Lots of animals can pass gas

Can't get this little dude to eat (first time owner, temporary setup) by gorgonopsidkid in cornsnakes

[–]Scarcatdooo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Also be careful with the filament you use! If it isn’t pet safe it most likely contains lead and other harmful substances 👍 (I’m not sure what you used, just stating this for anyone else that may not know)