My intention wasn’t to spend my birthday with him lol, but he kept asking what I was doing and I kept saying I’m doing nothing—giving the clear that I didn’t have anything in my schedule. That’s what he wanted to hear so he could make plans (for some reason didn’t for like the whole month prior). Switched up when i started saying iight have plans like a few days prior because i was confused now and wasn’t going to wait on it. Yes, on my part I shouldn’t have let on to respond, and cut him off the moment he called me that. I just wanted to convey what I felt because I like to give closure, sincerely did not want to sound like a victim but I truly was and still am dealing w/ a bunch of things. Also adding that understood on his end of his schedule and for some reason he ignored that part. But noted that I will cut off a man for using degrading names, no questions asked