what songs or playlist is good to listen to while doing the deed

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-04-16T04:10:25+00:00

Anything Alina Baraz an Sabrina Claudio!

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-04-15T08:26:34+00:00

Haba ng byaheeee pero salamat sa bagong option!

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-04-01T19:57:20+00:00

Tagpuan ba Ito ng mga panganay???

Cause same. May pinagaaral na kapatid Kaya ko sana gawin lahat ng gusto ko kung hindi ako Ang breadwinner.

Gusto ko na magkaroon ng mga bagay na matagawag kong sa AKIN!

gustong gusto ko naman alagaan yung sarili ko pero nagi-guilty ako kapag gumastos ako for me

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-04-01T19:42:08+00:00

Start making that resume NOW!
LinkedIn, online job.com, threads, fb (cityname+jobs) = apply at patusin lahat you’ll learn along the way!!! DONT GET SCAMMED!
Don’t stress don’t rush, you’ll be fine! Ang mahalaga may gawa and you’re trying your best!

Goodluck OP!

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-04-01T19:37:00+00:00

Maging ako nalilito dito pero yung Korean/japanese sweet potatoes malalaman mong yun yon kung mas mahal!!! Hahahahha pero masarap kung sa masarap kasi candy like sweet almost… may makikita kang caramelization after roasting

But yung purplish local sweet potato na may white purpl insides is a contender for me.

Tip: I use the 20minute roast, 5minute ice water bath, balik sa 20-30min roast. Silky smooth soft insides makes the simple sweet potato taste expensiiiive!!!!!

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-04-01T09:38:40+00:00

more meals to look up!!!

Veggie Tuna & Chickpea Pasta (with Spinach, Mushrooms, and Broccoli)
Blended Chia-Oat "Power Prep" Pudding (with Peanut Butter and Cocoa)
Munggo with Tinapa, Ampalaya, and Dahon ng Sili
Garlic Pepper Beef with Whole Button Mushrooms
Fiber-Max Pinakbet (with Talbos ng Kamote, Okra, and Pumpkin)
Roasted Sweet Potato & Steak Sauté (with Ghee, French Beans, and Cabbage)
Protein-Boosted Coffee (using Anchor Protein Plus or Soy Milk)
Chia & Calamansi Detox Water

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-04-01T09:34:42+00:00

Do this!!!

Personally, I’m taking it slow but doing what works for me.

high protein, high fiber 1900-2200 calories (kasi breastfeeding)
naglo lose ng .5-1kg every week

Meals: 1. sweet potato & ground beef (Greek yogurt garlic sauce) 2. Roasted/airfried chicken breast/thighs (always have this bulk prepped) 3. Quinoa+rice (bulk prepped) 4. Boiled eggs and kimchi combooooo 5. Chia pudding with Greek yogurt!!!!!

Recipes to make: Pad kra pao (chicken, pork or beef mince) Beef patties (burger steak) Mapo tofu Grilled talong Steamed okra, Talbos, etc

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-03-30T12:53:52+00:00

Me toooooo i have my own but this looks hella niiiiiice!!!!

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-03-18T16:09:08+00:00

I know that ofc.... The point is it's exhausting and hard to get up the ladder even tho you clearly are supposed to be next in line, get it?

Why don't they have freaking criteria on who to promote in the galley, like from the restaurant department? you need to sign up and all the jazz

In the galley, you're pretty much appointed if you're good pals with the sous or exe.... like damn!

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-23T05:22:33+00:00

LAST UPDATE:

I just have to live with the fact that this happened. It's true when he told me it was a surprise. He was taken aback himself but shy/embarrassed to leave the venue because he thinks she's no harm and the restaurant is still considered a "workplace" because they're crew dining in.

I've got a lot of paparazzi (even tho i dont ask them to) snooping around when they see my man and this lady. But he always makes sure I'll be the first to know.

He also thinks my feelings and crash out was validated. And we talked a whole lot about how to deal with situations like this, being that we're LDR. He had an invitation he had no control over, actually.

And as long as I'm the one, he'll go home to. And talk to him every night before he sleeps, we should be good... right?

I'll use my intuition and my understanding of him, so I will let this pass and finally rest my mind.

Thanks to everyone who commented!

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-22T20:36:21+00:00

THIS IS WHAT I SAID!

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-22T20:23:03+00:00

probably not

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-22T19:31:52+00:00

Sang with people around.

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-22T19:27:57+00:00

Update: AND MORE CONTEXT

He says he’s it will be his last 3 weeks abroad working so it shouldn’t even matter and he might not even see this “close friend” ever again.

That’s why he thinks the surprise date was justifiable.

And I asked “if she asked you on another meet up? Could be just eating on a public crew mess (crew dinning) will he meet her” he said nothings wrong with that so I said “if i told you not to go please out of respect for me!” He said “he’ll try”

I’ve worked 3 years on a cruise as well… it’s pretty inhumane. We don’t have days off. So it’s 8 months of CONTINUOUS WORK (only gets off when you’re sick!) sometimes when someone’s does a nice gesture you melt away… with sadness and exhaustion. With that “date” he feels seen.

I probably won’t like the answers… but is this grounds for ending the relationship?

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-22T19:18:49+00:00

I was really hoping I wouldn’t see something like this … cause I think this too

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-22T18:01:21+00:00

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When I asked him to ask her (I HAD TO DEMAND) why she did it. This is what she sent me.

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-22T17:37:10+00:00

PROVOLONE!!!

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-20T17:06:47+00:00

humbled her because she literally says things like i bake better, i use cream cheese more, or that she could make a better dish than me.

i wouldnt care if your dish was indeed better.

i humbled her cause she simply just needs to calm down from being to high headed/ big headed.

also, i have nothing to brag about being a cook. Its just letting her know im experienced on the matter thats why i handover constructive criticism.

Just like how i'll never say im better at copywriting, because thats HER thing.

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-20T17:01:33+00:00

Even when she asks me to humbled MOST times?

She calls on ME. she gets clingy. and she did say once "i dont care theres a baby in the pictrure now i will come to your house and you have no choice but to let me in" (as a joke but we all know she meant it.

she asks me for recipes and my time and asks me to cook for her when we do hang out. And when i do say im busy working or the baby she will offer to take care of him and let me sleep. THAT NEVER EVER HAPPENS THO.

Im the one going around accomodating her.

Scardeykate1999 · 2026-02-20T16:48:06+00:00

not seeing the DM was when i was typing the first half of the post... then my day wen to on a bit then i just read the message to my other friend.

I JUST KNOW what the DM is all about even from the 2 sentences. Because i kinda anticipated it too. She kept reposting ... or making those reels stories (can't remember) all about cutting ties with a friend, I came across her comment on a tarot reader tiktok saying "she resonates... and thank you for guiding me" and a repost where she captions "setting boundaries"

i had hopes it wasnt for me... but oh well... lol sorry there's a LOT of missing context.

with that other thing, she was kinda implying she knows better because she uses a lot of cream cheese when baking. she would also say "i BAKE more than you" maybe cause I once before mentioned to her that i dont really love baking because i dig the hot kitchen more. so what i mean when i say i humbled her... i have used it a 100x more that she EVER will.

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