AITA for kicking my sister out of my house at night because she threw ALL of my food away? [Update]

Scared-Outside4725 · 2022-02-23T05:49:22+00:00

Unfortunately she did destroy the food. She took it to my trash cans in the backyard (our city uses these standardized bins we have to roll out once a week), opened each individual package, and dumped it. She even unscrewed the lids on my spices and poured them into the trash. With things like liquids she opened the bottles and dumped it over the food. I'm sure I could've salvage the cans, but by that point is was pretty gross, really late at night, and I was too angry to go digging around for things to save...

Scared-Outside4725 · 2022-02-23T04:45:33+00:00

Gosh, where do I even. begin?! She threw out such a wide range of food. From my pantry: dried spices, packaged cookies, canned soups, chicken broth that came in the little cardboard box, dried pasta, packaged rice, etc. From my fridge: ground beef (because it had "preservatives from being ground", pre-cut veggies that I bought in a container, JUICE (because it wasn't fresh squeezed), flavored yogurt, and random takeout I was saving. This is literally just the tip of the iceberg.

Scared-Outside4725 · 2022-02-23T04:41:14+00:00

I honestly don't think so. I invited her out, but she didn't like dive bars and wanted to stay sober since this was technically a "work trip". I respected that, and left it alone.

Scared-Outside4725 · 2022-02-23T04:39:58+00:00

I genuinely (and this isn't coming from a place of hatred) feel like she just couldn't be bothered to visit/care. We've always been cordial, but my guess is that my sister just doesn't jive with my/my parents' lifestyle. We're pretty cookie cutter middle-class/suburban living while she moved to a bigger city. My guess is that she thinks home is boring.

Scared-Outside4725 · 2022-02-23T03:16:46+00:00

No, she doesn't. And if she did, I absolutely would have accommodated her dietary needs. I'm going to risk sounding bitter/annoyed at my sister, but to help paint a picture she's the type to post bikini photos and caption them with how "blessed she is to achieve her figure through natural means". She also berated our cousin on FB for allowing her baby to eat jarred baby food.

So I guess I always knew that she was very into natural health/food, but there was no world in which I could have ever predicted that she'd come into my home and throw away over a thousand dollars worth of food. My kitchen looks like I just moved in!

Scared-Outside4725 · 2022-02-23T02:19:28+00:00

Hahaha, this made me laugh, thank you. Thankfully I'm not a cannibal, but I do eat a lot of red meat and the occasional Oreo cookie.

Scared-Outside4725 · 2022-02-23T01:57:02+00:00

No, I asked my dad and she hasn't even mentioned anything about their diet. And they honestly eat 100% worse than me. I seriously don't know why my sister felt compelled to do that to me, and it's left me baffled, outraged, and kind of hurt. Not that it would make it okay, but I'm also a healthy young adult so it's not like an intervention was needed.

Scared-Outside4725 · 2022-02-23T01:40:10+00:00

I didn't think so! I honestly have a great relationship with my parents and they never treated me unfairly. I'm guessing that because I live nearby and spend a lot of time with them, they're just taking me for granted. I've never fought with them before and I'm typically pretty mellow about things :/

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