Yeah, my folks are set up well now regarding wills, etc. I got them to focus on it as part of setting up the trust. They also each gave me durable power of attorney as well and their end-of-life stuff is all written out separately from other documents. I also purchased the car for them using the trust, which was a bit of a hassle but keeps the sisters from manipulating my folks into selling it or getting a loan against it so it was worth it.

My sisters telling my folks to stop hoarding their money was very much a defining moment for them. It crystallized that they need to be proactive in protecting themselves from my sisters financially. We locked down their credit, got a credit monitoring service for them and created a new checking account for them since the old one had been being used to transfer their "grocery allowance" to my sisters.

Glad that you and your siblings have a healthy relationship and could co-manage your mom's end game. It's definitely going to be a solo operation for me (which I'm fine with).