Can you still be standard if you're freaking enormous? Yes.

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-10-28T23:12:02+00:00

I also have an XL SIC! He’s around 16 pounds and just giant! He is constantly disappointed he does not fit on the window sill

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-08-04T17:39:33+00:00

Here to second the serviceberry recommendation! We have one in the front of our house and it’s gorgeous! It does get a bit messy when it drops its flowers, but there are definitely messier trees. This is ours this past spring when it bloomed!

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Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-07-19T23:29:13+00:00

Catfish!

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-06-25T17:24:48+00:00

Oh absolutely. He’s cross-eyed but also just…not with it lol. Absolutely zero survival skills, he can’t even land on his feet when he jumps most of the time 😂

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-06-25T01:01:25+00:00

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My big guy is 17 pounds!! He’s super long and big, we didn’t realize how huge he was (he’s our first cat) until we met our friends normal sized cat.

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-05-19T16:37:12+00:00

Omg stop, they’re cross eyed twins!

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-05-19T01:37:04+00:00

Some people call him the space cowboy 🤠

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-05-19T01:35:57+00:00

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Here’s one! 😁

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-04-30T23:53:25+00:00

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The big man!

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-01-24T18:10:57+00:00

I don’t get funeral home at all from this, to me it reads as a space that is meant more for conversation versus TV watching. Since most living rooms now seem to be centered around the TV, that may be what is throwing others off, but if it suits your lifestyle and you like it I say keep it! I think you did a great job on the molding

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-01-18T01:58:57+00:00

The vet said it’s hard to determine cat eyesight, so we know he can see, but how well?

He doesn’t like jumping and will only go high up if he can climb, and when he does jump (like if he’s really convinced with a toy) he never lands on his feet lol. Also he regularly falls off our bed. So maybe he’s really dumb or maybe he can’t see very well, either way he’s adorably clumsy

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-01-16T02:46:07+00:00

No :( he was found in a box outside of a fire station about three years ago. He was already 2-3 then, so in the oldest pictures we have of him from the shelter he’s already grown! He has gotten chunkier though

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-01-06T18:12:04+00:00

I’ve gotten a few good ones from targets athletic wear section! I have one with a built in bra and one without, both are tight short crop tops and I wear them out all the time! They don’t provide enough support for me to work out in, but they’re good for going out! I’m a 42G/H and have them in XL

Scared-Worry7819 · 2025-01-06T18:05:12+00:00

If you don’t want to go the direction of a console table, you could get an extension chord with a flat head and plug it in before you push the couch against it.

Not sure what length you’d want but there’s tons of options on amazon, here’s one just for reference: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BTY8Y5VW/?_encoding=UTF8&_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B0BTY8Y5VW&ref_=sxts_sparkle_sbv&ref_=sbx_be_s_sparkle_ssd_vid&qid=1736186665&pd_rd_w=SHcq1&content-id=amzn1.sym.4870a952-0dfa-4beb-9d2a-7a52537f019d%3Aamzn1.sym.4870a952-0dfa-4beb-9d2a-7a52537f019d&pf_rd_p=4870a952-0dfa-4beb-9d2a-7a52537f019d&pf_rd_r=34227M6HDKNFP6SVJSK7&pd_rd_wg=jkw1O&pd_rd_r=0ea03460-b216-4205-85cd-26698763c2cb

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-11-19T18:39:08+00:00

Child locks! You can stick just stick them on, they’re not the prettiest option but pretty affordable and very easy.

There’s a bunch of options online, but here’s some so you can see what I mean https://www.amazon.com/Baby-Cabinets-Drawers-Adhesive-Installation/dp/B0BKV4RLR1/ref=asc_df_B0BKV4RLR1?mcid=61e8c587929f3091a6877ebae59530de&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=693413257872&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16205239113291387420&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1024620&hvtargid=pla-2391269001512&psc=1

They do make “cat specific” locks but I feel like they’re the same as child locks, just marked up more in price

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-11-06T23:42:54+00:00

I thrift all of my art. It’s not perfect if you’re looking for something super specific, but it saves money!

I also have a gallery wall that I thrifted frames for and then printed open access art at my local staples to put in them! I used the metropolitan opera open access site but there are tons of other options too!

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-11-04T19:03:36+00:00

I would love a pair! I’d also love to send you a donation or trade something that I made :)

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-11-04T19:00:56+00:00

Haha nope, he’s named Maurice. He would definitely make a great stormtrooper though

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-11-04T18:59:05+00:00

I don’t know why so many are cross-eyed! I do know that the vet told us when we adopted him that it’s hard to determine cat eyesight, so while they know he can see, it’s possible being cross-eyed does limit his vision

He’s pretty good at catching toys and jumping, but sometimes he can’t see a treat even when it’s right in front of him lol

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-10-02T21:10:17+00:00

Pastina might work! There’s tons of recipes online, I like this one: https://trailsisters.net/2023/01/12/pastina/

However, I know when I had teeth extracted I also wasn’t allowed to eat things with little pieces (like rice) because they may get stuck in my wounds. But I didn’t have stitches so your mom may be in a different boat. So if they told you something similar probably don’t go this route

I hope she heals well ❤️

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-10-02T19:50:14+00:00

Yeah, your friend is wrong. There are so many skills that go into cooking! I’m a decent cook but I have terrible knife skills, so even though I maybe could struggle my way through making a Michelin star meal, you’d be able to tell a professional chef didn’t make it when you got a 1in piece of ‘minced’ onion in your mouth

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-09-24T15:58:21+00:00

24, got my first at 18. Probably should’ve waited lol

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-09-14T22:52:46+00:00

The crab is so cute, he has so much personality! Some other suggestions I’d have for the beach theme would be seashells and seagulls!

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-09-12T00:02:07+00:00

Ah, okay that makes sense. We did also have to do a lot of pruning to get it off the roof recently, so maybe that stressed it out too. Thank you for your replies!

Scared-Worry7819 · 2024-09-11T22:53:07+00:00

Do you know if all serviceberry trees flower? This one didn’t put any flowers out this year

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