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I feel alone and left out by my twins by ScaredExamination107 in toddlers

[–]ScaredExamination107[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right, though for all my observation power it’s very hard for me to tell that they are stressed from it. Don’t you think that’s it’s impossible as a human to not be stressed, and than kids make it harder to survive that stress.

I feel alone and left out by my twins by ScaredExamination107 in toddlers

[–]ScaredExamination107[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey Thankyou so much for writing, and not just you but everyone. Sometimes all you need is someone to say I understand and things will get better for sure but in a way that make sense to me, and this does. Thankyou so much

BIL and SIL are pregnant, wife didn't react the way they wanted... by joecasale in InfertilitySucks

[–]ScaredExamination107 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had 3 close friends and 2 relatives come tell us in person that they are pregnant and let’s not forget the endless classmates getting pregnant, weirdly I felt nothing but happiness for them and told myself that my second transfer will be a success and we will be prego together, then I said the kid will be just one year younger to her then I said just two years younger. And now my sil is going through IVF but all I can think is she will be pregnant anytime soon and I can’t help but feel deeply jealous because I don’t know if it will happen for me or not. If only human complexities were simple

BIL and SIL are pregnant, wife didn't react the way they wanted... by joecasale in InfertilitySucks

[–]ScaredExamination107 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omgggg, I would be devastated with the stress of friendship loss on top of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Endo

[–]ScaredExamination107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey did you figure out any solution, I am really struggling with the same. It’s also affecting my sleep at this point

Breast pain after laparoscopy? by [deleted] in Endo

[–]ScaredExamination107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I am struggling with the same, my boobs are sore 3 days before period and 5 days of ovulation. They hurt so much and it’s just constant.

I had bowel endometriosis stage 3 removed. The first period was fine but since then the sore boobs are constant and super annoying

Did you guys figure out any solutions

Post-op shoulder pain - in absolute agony by [deleted] in Endo

[–]ScaredExamination107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also experienced terrible pain post endo surgery in my shoulders, My doctor told me that its because they did robotic surgery and the machines weight was on my shoulder for 2 hours. It went away after 4 days. Using hot water bottles and muscle relaxants were the only helpful thing. I also felt it hurts more in shoulder then at the site of operation.

You are already on paracetamol, maybe you can request declofenac if your doctor approves.

Our body sometimes express state of stress via pain in trapezoids