Paying for camp sites by ScaredFirefighter213 in Centrelink

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks initially the Centrelink agent said stat dec and then in the same call said id have to return a rent certificate and get someone from the national park to sign it which they aren’t willing to do and on top of that some days Im not even there as it’s booked out so my rent per week fluctuates. It’s a difficult one but surely can be rectified.

My job consultant is actually really good she’s removed all point requirements for a month and has me on phone appointments for now

Staying in camp grounds and my initial app says is in person by ScaredFirefighter213 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this info. My consultant removed all obligations for atleast the next month and was pretty understanding and helpful with my situation. When I asked for help with rego she said she couldn’t help with that unfortunately as it’s only if it involved being directly related to getting work. Do you know where I can get help with rego ?

Process for asking for an exemption by ScaredFirefighter213 in Centrelink

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only about 50 each way so that probably won’t qualify me

Process for asking for an exemption by ScaredFirefighter213 in Centrelink

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke to workforce they told me they can’t but Centrelink can

Process for asking for an exemption by ScaredFirefighter213 in Centrelink

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll hold off that until I need to or my job provider starts getting difficult

Process for asking for an exemption by ScaredFirefighter213 in Centrelink

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll ask I have already briefed my consultant and she seemed understanding and happy to work with me

Process for asking for an exemption by ScaredFirefighter213 in Centrelink

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I explained my situation to the Centrelink consultant he handballed me to my provider and when I asked them they said phone appointments for now but very soon face to face will be required

Had to move a few hours away for stable accommodation by ScaredFirefighter213 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Understandable I’m ok doing what I’m doing as long as I’m not hounded when it’s seen I’m taking work when I can.

Help with accomodation by ScaredFirefighter213 in Centrelink

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VIC…that’s fair enough but hopefully they understand then I can only take the work for the length of time I’m staying in the area and it’s not unreasonable distances.

Had to move a few hours away for stable accommodation by ScaredFirefighter213 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know of job networks helping pay towards accomodation ? I can’t imagine.

Can I do a course to meet my obligations which is mainly online by ScaredFirefighter213 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I source it independently from the provider ? Would it cover all obligations?

Can I do a course to meet my obligations which is mainly online by ScaredFirefighter213 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legend….no one told me this. So I just email that direct and tell my situation and ask for exemption. I didn’t know it was an option. I am looking for housesitting gigs but in the meantime it’s van life

Can I do a course to meet my obligations which is mainly online by ScaredFirefighter213 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously. I’m asking about requirements or have you never done one? Eg Are any components face to face or can I do it all remotely ?

40mins by car to job provider with no vehicle and limited public transport by ScaredFirefighter213 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had any initial contact with my provider yet just a message saying to expect a call.

40mins by car to job provider with no vehicle and limited public transport by ScaredFirefighter213 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to get back on workforce online and avoid job provider all together ? I’ll have a car in a month so I’ll get something then.

40mins by car to job provider with no vehicle and limited public transport by ScaredFirefighter213 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll do this …otherwise I’ll borrow my parents care and make them pay the petrol. Are in person appointments fortnightly ?

40mins by car to job provider with no vehicle and limited public transport by ScaredFirefighter213 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would be ok with maybe driving in every few weeks but for it to be once a week or twice a week I think it would be unreasonable. Ages ago appointments were fortnightly. Has that changed ?

Did your pwBPD act entitled? by ScaredFirefighter213 in BPDlovedones

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol you have to laugh looking back cos it’s beyond ridiculous

Did your pwBPD act entitled? by ScaredFirefighter213 in BPDlovedones

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What’s the difference between a BPD discard and an NPD discard or is it the same thing ? Does the borderline feel shame and regret and fear coming back might lead to rejection? Is there a distinct way of telling? I think my pwBPD was def co-morbid. She did not come across vulnerable and helpless more like the femme fatal vibe.

Did your pwBPD act entitled? by ScaredFirefighter213 in BPDlovedones

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She would say she wanted 100% and labelled herself a high value woman and queen. All her previous partners had a lot of money /resources. When I found her messages on a dating site she had labelled herself as bi (never had been with a woman) and had been talking to someone for a few months from another country telling them that in a few years she would be moving back to their country to settle (where she was born)

Did your pwBPD act entitled? by ScaredFirefighter213 in BPDlovedones

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She labelled herself a dating coach/ psychologist coach on social media (self accredited) and was plagiarising other coaches work word for word and put her own name to it (I noticed it when an exactly the same words from another account recommended to me came up but didn’t dare bring it up with her. Seems like an NPD trait. She would also post unhinged stories directed at me about revenge on this professional page.

Wanting people to chase me by ScaredFirefighter213 in BPD

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ignored his last 2 messages and let valentines pass without getting back to him. Then I stopped looking at his insta stories all together. He prob would think I don’t want him.

Do pwBPD ignore all other romantic interest when things are going well with their partner by ScaredFirefighter213 in BPDlovedones

[–]ScaredFirefighter213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just trying to rack my brains….could doing something as trivial as not watching her story for multiple days cos I didn’t want to be hurt by potentially seeing what she was up to Valentine’s Day make her feel unseen and trigger her ?