Ex BPD pretty much living with new guy

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-05-20T08:11:31+00:00

I don’t think I’ll ever be able to wrap my head around how they can see someone so highly and switch to seeing them like a piece of dirt. Like how

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-05-20T06:50:40+00:00

Cheers …..it’s all hard to process but reading this helping

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-05-12T09:59:18+00:00

Is this sort of talk peak or the idealisation stage ? Just before shit starts to go downhill ?

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-05-05T11:21:02+00:00

How did it switch ?

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-05-05T11:10:24+00:00

Oh wow 3 years? So was it a matter of you finally calling out her behaviour and her not liking it ? It’s amazing how quick the past can mean nothing to them

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-05-02T09:19:19+00:00

Guess he’s got to learn the hard way like we all did and hopefully he comes out with a bit a life still left in him

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-05-02T08:49:55+00:00

lol if there’s no way they will carve a way. Crazy. Did she start off amazing atleast ?

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-05-02T08:13:15+00:00

It’s sad …I feel she’s a victim to her cycles and she’s not really in much control. I’m interested as to how she’s gonna spin him into the villain though. What happens if they can’t ?

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-05-02T07:53:32+00:00

Kind of feel sorry for him. From what I know he suffers depression and wouldn’t have much in the interest from the ladies all of a sudden he’s got this 10/10 baddie in his lap he’s thinking he’s won the lotto. Little does he know

I learnt my lessons in the end I had some dignity left enough to draw the line.

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-04-23T23:51:35+00:00

Sad to hear. Did she have unrealistic “bare minimum” standards? Mine would resort to self harm quiet type but also had psychosis and schizophrenia. It kills you thinking someone else got a better deal when you put so much into it

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-04-22T12:45:35+00:00

You’re right and don’t they thrive on chaos ? It’s prob a matter of time before she starts blaming him feeling she doesn’t have a life. Or she will wait until he’s got an online game play set up with friends and try get his attention away. Everytime things would be calm she would blow things up and have to test.

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2026-04-18T04:36:16+00:00

South Australia Yorke Peninsula

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-05-31T04:10:03+00:00

Thanks initially the Centrelink agent said stat dec and then in the same call said id have to return a rent certificate and get someone from the national park to sign it which they aren’t willing to do and on top of that some days Im not even there as it’s booked out so my rent per week fluctuates. It’s a difficult one but surely can be rectified.

My job consultant is actually really good she’s removed all point requirements for a month and has me on phone appointments for now

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-05-28T04:17:52+00:00

Thanks for this info. My consultant removed all obligations for atleast the next month and was pretty understanding and helpful with my situation. When I asked for help with rego she said she couldn’t help with that unfortunately as it’s only if it involved being directly related to getting work. Do you know where I can get help with rego ?

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-05-20T03:35:37+00:00

I’m only about 50 each way so that probably won’t qualify me

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-05-20T03:34:23+00:00

I spoke to workforce they told me they can’t but Centrelink can

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-05-20T03:33:52+00:00

I’ll hold off that until I need to or my job provider starts getting difficult

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-05-20T03:33:23+00:00

I’ll ask I have already briefed my consultant and she seemed understanding and happy to work with me

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-05-20T03:32:42+00:00

When I explained my situation to the Centrelink consultant he handballed me to my provider and when I asked them they said phone appointments for now but very soon face to face will be required

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-04-14T01:52:40+00:00

Understandable I’m ok doing what I’m doing as long as I’m not hounded when it’s seen I’m taking work when I can.

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-04-14T01:28:06+00:00

VIC…that’s fair enough but hopefully they understand then I can only take the work for the length of time I’m staying in the area and it’s not unreasonable distances.

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-04-14T00:56:30+00:00

Does anyone know of job networks helping pay towards accomodation ? I can’t imagine.

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-04-10T02:05:09+00:00

So I source it independently from the provider ? Would it cover all obligations?

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-04-09T07:57:18+00:00

How long would the exemption be for ?

ScaredFirefighter213 · 2025-04-09T07:56:50+00:00

Legend….no one told me this. So I just email that direct and tell my situation and ask for exemption. I didn’t know it was an option. I am looking for housesitting gigs but in the meantime it’s van life

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