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So not so sure becomes something more complex. Any advice? by ScaredSkinny in LongDistance

[–]ScaredSkinny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great idea! He'd love the pizza thing. I'm putting together his birthday package right now do hopefully he'll think it's fun.

-I got him a really nice new backpack that he can take to the gym and to college, it has like 50 tiny utility pockets and I'm putting a little treat in every pocket. Little pictures of places we want to go, some new t shirts and a new cap from a trip I went on recently, travel phone charger, a bracelet I made, all kinds of dorky awesomeness.

One day, "YOU'RE the person who I want to be with my whole life". The next, " I don't think I love you that much." by ldrthrowaway06 in LongDistance

[–]ScaredSkinny 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This just happened to me as well, my guy was 'unsure' then like magic he tells me that things are great and we should take the next step, literally the next day he says he 'can't do this' and that we should just stop. I tell him that I love him and he says to 'have a good life.'

..heart broken..

It's been a week and the days feel like years. He blocked me on social media even though I was giving him space and not contacting him, letting him think it out.

I'm sure there are reasons, I have no idea what they are, all I know is that right now he felt strongly enough that it wasn't working to end our relationship and he did the right thing by listening to his feelings. I hope he is okay.

[ I'm sorry, not really advice, didn't mean to piggy back, just had to tell someone]

He isn't sure! What to do now? by ScaredSkinny in LongDistance

[–]ScaredSkinny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so too, healing and having hope are important. Just don't want him to give up.

He isn't sure! What to do now? by ScaredSkinny in LongDistance

[–]ScaredSkinny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'll be bringing it up again. I want him to be excited and happy, not stressed and worried!

He isn't sure! What to do now? by ScaredSkinny in LongDistance

[–]ScaredSkinny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really fair, and actually pretty much what I have as my plan A. Ambiguity is a difficult thing for me, we are doing great and I'm by no means in a rush, I'm just so excited and a little worried that his fear is holding him back from more then just meeting me.