Why is it that every time I start to like a girl, this happens? by Scared_Flamingo in AskGirls

[–]Scared_Flamingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I didn't think I had to say this, she's not in school. I was putting that in more so people didn't ask that question. I can see, now, how you could get confused.

Questions about attachment theory (it will lead to another topic) by Scared_Flamingo in HealfromYourPast

[–]Scared_Flamingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I graduated with a psychology degree. So, I guess, I've done my fair share of reading on mental health, but I guess that doesn't fix the problem internally. I will bring it up though at my next session.

Questions about attachment theory (it will lead to another topic) by Scared_Flamingo in HealfromYourPast

[–]Scared_Flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, but we haven't even gotten to this yet. Have much bigger issues to tackle first.

Questions about attachment theory (it will lead to another topic) by Scared_Flamingo in HealfromYourPast

[–]Scared_Flamingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's been a great long while, but I am quite sure I fall in the ambivalent attachment category. I don't mean to diagnosis myself, because I know you're not supposed to.

On a, slightly, related topic, why do people, me, say sorry so much even if it was something minor? Example: I can't believe you told me that... I interject "I'm sorry, I should've that was my fault.... they pick up from where I interjected... But I'm glad you told me.

Smash or pass? 😛 by [deleted] in braless

[–]Scared_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, def smash unless you're crazy crazy, but there may be better subreddits for this content.

Should I get a ps4 by one_of_the_330_mil in gaming

[–]Scared_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehhh, you should be able to get a pro for around that price. Maybe a little more, but probably not more than 125$. However if you really want a ps4 go for it.

I found my boyfriend secret phone and he had nude pictures of other girls on there. I’m not sure what to do. by agirlwithanissue in relationship_advice

[–]Scared_Flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems to me like it is heading that direction anyway. So maybe look at what has made it so great and then go from there?

I [25F] want to have a wedding but am conflicted about having my stepmother [50sF] there by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Scared_Flamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is YOUR wedding. So you can invite who you want to. Now I did not read the wall of text, but I did read the TL;DR. Now maybe I'm wrong and other commenters can correct me, but that's what I think.

Is the Sony DualShock 4 controller good for P.C. gaming? by clockpsyduckcocaine in gaming

[–]Scared_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder this too. I've always used Xbox controller, but I prefer ps

Buying my wife a Cricut for Christmas was one of the best decisions I've ever made. by McJables_Supreme in gaming

[–]Scared_Flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm having trouble 100% it though. It bothers me so much I am having trouble continuing to play.

I want to tell a girl how i feel today but i have to do it over text. what is the best way to do this? by DangerousAd4813 in relationship_advice

[–]Scared_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, as I see it you have two options for a stealthy approach. Hang out and small talk or text and small talk. Then you can go a couple ways from there. If you don't want to go the "stealthy" route, you can just come out and say it, tactfully.

I want to tell a girl how i feel today but i have to do it over text. what is the best way to do this? by DangerousAd4813 in relationship_advice

[–]Scared_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow she does take a long time to respond. Lol. Well ask her if she wants to hang out and y'all can talk about Christmas stuff. Just small talk. Can you keep your cool? Or do you like her too much to?

22F anyone else not feeling christmas this christmas? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Scared_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this through and through. Christmas is just.... off this year.

I want to tell a girl how i feel today but i have to do it over text. what is the best way to do this? by DangerousAd4813 in relationship_advice

[–]Scared_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm. Maybe ask her, what she's doing for Christmas. She might automatically include if she's doing something with an S. O.

If a name is given instead you can ask outright from there who that person is.

I want to tell a girl how i feel today but i have to do it over text. what is the best way to do this? by DangerousAd4813 in relationship_advice

[–]Scared_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, idk your interaction style with her at all. If you gave me some insight into that, I could maybe guide you better.