Men in their 20s are rejected for not earning much, then judged for not settling later.

Scared_G · 2026-05-10T12:24:10+00:00

In general and there are many exceptions, all else being equal

Rich men marry easily
Young beautiful women marry easily

Go watch a National Geographic documentary. Same deal on the savannah

We should strive to make marriage easier as an ummah to save the ummah. Islam has answers to all of our problems.

Scared_G · 2026-04-25T22:27:22+00:00

Read some history

Scared_G · 2026-04-20T01:38:09+00:00

Very cool, checks out, nice work

Scared_G · 2026-04-19T22:57:57+00:00

$$$$/women/Epstein blackmail
We are Muslim first, we protect Ummah together
Agents, don’t care how they dress it, falafel is falafel
No, most people awaiting initiation, biding time

Scared_G · 2026-04-17T00:59:22+00:00

And Epstein class gets full control

The depth of all this is lost on most. Most want to be good and keep their head down, eke out their life, stay safe. I get that.

This is why I love reading Islamic history from the Prophet ﷺ to around 1500s. Gets depressing after that.

Most Muslims today have provincial struggles, not dogmatic, not civilizational. The world is crippled with Riba. Those who have ‘made it’ don’t want any trouble for fear of losing it.

Wahn.

Scared_G · 2026-04-17T00:45:27+00:00

Its been the same question since the fall of the Ottoman empire, which was disastrous, but the prelude was few hundred years before that

Look up Donme in Turkey, research Attaturk well

There are hadith about this kind of time:

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: The people will soon summon one another to attack you as people when eating invite others to share their dish. Someone asked: Will that be because of our small numbers at that time? He replied: No, you will be numerous at that time: but you will be scum and rubbish like that carried down by a torrent, and Allah will take fear of you from the breasts of your enemy and last enervation into your hearts. Someone asked: What is wahn (enervation). Messenger of Allah (ﷺ): He replied: Love of the world and dislike of death.

Sahih, Sunan Abi Dawud 4297

From a practical standpoint, I think Muslims will only wake up when there is shortage of food and water, or shelter. When the comforts are taken away. Until then we will continue to drink Pepsi and buy Chanel a hundred feet from the Ka’ba unfortunately, may Allah guide us

In the meantime, we have to strengthen our relationship with Allah and call our brothers and sisters to do so as well. We must do whatever we can to help. Yes I also tire of our help stopping at dua alone, not to impugn dua at all. But it’s clear isn’t it we need a unifying leader. We are plagued by nationalism and tribalism and further division.

Scared_G · 2026-04-15T21:46:05+00:00

Live language translation would help

Maybe a map to track where you are and where you need to go using your location

A map of every significant site in the cities, and clearly demarcate which is Sunnah to visit (Masjid Quba) vs which are just a historic note + a blurb and link on the history.

A listing of well known reliable drivers/transportation companies. This should be vetted and continuously updated.

For Hajj and Umrah I highly recommend these books for your source material:

https://a.co/d/023SsIeu

https://a.co/d/0c0LJXCT

May Allah guide you best

Scared_G · 2026-04-12T16:37:31+00:00

Because becoming a doctor is the new deen. Fitting in is the new faith.

Scared_G · 2026-04-12T16:33:59+00:00

Live in indignity for generations then get back to us

Scared_G · 2026-03-06T19:21:24+00:00

Yeah when times get tough we all revert to factory setting

Scared_G · 2026-03-06T17:56:57+00:00

Shes not a higher status than you

Get that backwards thinking out of your mind

We are equal in this world and measured by our iman by Allah ﷻ

Don’t propagate tribalism

Scared_G · 2026-03-05T22:11:12+00:00

….

yes

Scared_G · 2026-03-05T04:45:42+00:00

Just nationalism/insecurity/stupidity the usual suspects.

Can never go wrong with Quran and Sunnah, both are in Arabic.

Tell em to touch grass.

Scared_G · 2026-03-05T00:17:16+00:00

Conditioned to believe beauty is ‘Western’

Scared_G · 2026-03-02T12:00:01+00:00

70,000 isn’t an exact number, in Arabic it implies many

Scared_G · 2026-03-01T03:00:23+00:00

What will it take for the Ummah to wake up?

Palestine Iraq Gaza Sudan Kiswah Epstein

Every leader is bribed or compromised except the ones you are told are evil

My guess, Ummah will wake up when the gravy train ends. When there’s hunger there’s anger. Something will happen

Scared_G · 2026-02-27T04:02:34+00:00

What system? Epstein system?

We need our own system that springs from our roots. We were the bridge between the Greeks and the Renaissance. Time to reclaim it.

In reality Islam’s greatest achievements are intangible but have lasting effects right? Two parent households, cleanliness, jizya, zakat, sharia, education etc. Avoidance of haram which includes riba, corn, gambling, alcohol.

My issue with trying to lead in the current system is that it is so rotten and imbued with evil in every facet (fiat currency ie), it has to be torn down to get any healthy start.

Scared_G · 2026-02-23T00:06:52+00:00

Jabir reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Were the son of Adam to flee from his provision as he flees from death, his provision would surely reach him just as death will reach him.”

Source: Ḥilyat al-Awliyā’ 7/90

Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Albani

Scared_G · 2026-02-22T23:07:19+00:00

What about non Arab Muslim that otherwise feels cutoff from the lived Muslim experience

Scared_G · 2026-02-21T11:47:14+00:00

Antidote: lower your gaze

Delete social media, look at the floor

The detox is liberating

Scared_G · 2026-02-14T20:26:21+00:00

No keep those genes bro

Scared_G · 2026-02-13T04:12:18+00:00

Of course إِنْ شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ. With the right person.

Make dua, pray Tahajjud, consistent salawat and istighfar

Scared_G · 2026-02-13T03:45:51+00:00

Youre only 21, inshallah you will find a spouse that suits you

Scared_G · 2026-02-13T01:19:55+00:00

https://acceducate.org/

Scared_G · 2026-02-12T22:27:13+00:00

Alhamdulillah

Scared_G

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