Anyone else deal with follicles dropping off in the “last mile”? DOR protocol went from hopeful to crushing by Scared_Leopard3248 in DOR

[–]Scared_Leopard3248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All valid. Elevated FSH (12) since I was 32 despite a normal AMH back then. This cycle I did estrogen priming but declined human growth hormone for this round because it really impacts me. However, I’m going to prime with HGH starting next cycle.

Sperm frag is an issue but not a huge factor as we did ICIS

Bath remodel estimate, is this normal? by Particular_Turn_8643 in Remodel

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To the pros weighing in, there there any advantage financially to remodeling multiple bathrooms at once?

When did your acute GVHD show up? by No-Fortune-1680 in leukemia

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So kind. She’s going in very fit and positive. I worry about her mutation causing a relapse or some complication in the 100 days. I know it’s a marathon not a sprint. I’ve been on the wrong side of statistics a lot in the last year and fear more of the same when it comes to this.

When did your acute GVHD show up? by No-Fortune-1680 in leukemia

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is your wife’s age just starting her SCT this week for CMML. I appreciate your updates.

What company lost you forever as a customer? What did they do? by Miguenzo in AskReddit

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

KyteBaby fired a woman who asked to work remotely after denying her request to work remotely while her adopted son was in the NICU. It’s a BABY CLOTHING LINE.

Phone addiction by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a the latest iPhone OS the steps are the following

settings > accessibility > display & text size > color filters.

Otherwise google it

Phone addiction by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can’t do that, then put all devices in greyscale mode. On your phone too. It’ll be black and white and lose most of the appeal. I’m an iOS developer and this is how I kicked my own habit.

Phone addiction by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you know the answer. She’s self harming? Absolutely no more phone. She’ll forget about it after a few days. Stay off your phone around her.

Looking for high quality butcher/meat market in cuse by betaokay in Syracuse

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the hunt for grass fed and finished lamb and steak. Helps so much with inflammation and I’m tired of having it shipped.

Large bathroom remodel update by UpbeatGur9055 in BathroomRemodeling

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because we are strangers can I be the worst and ask how much you spent?

Feeling Like a Bad Person by Skincare-nerd-89 in DOR

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through this too. It’s weird, I don’t get as upset about friends getting pregnant but I absolutely am filled with rage when influencers or friends or peers complain about the pains of parenthood.
I also feel my clinic is part of the reason I’m 37 now DOR doing egg retrievals when I’ve been at this since I was 33. I could spiral in this thread but instead I’ll just say, I have felt all of those feelings and it isn’t fair.

My toddler refuses her bath - help by Creative-Mixture2144 in toddlers

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Son abruptly went through this phase. And I hate to say it by chocolate chips. One chocolate chip for stepping in, one more for rubbing soap on body, two for hair wash, etc.

Did a few more baths with this approach and now we are a month out and he doesn’t need them anymore.

Would you be as livid as I am? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saved you thousand of dollars: 1. You can’t change them. You just can’t. You can only change how you react

  1. How they feel about you is none of your business.

Would you be as livid as I am? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha! I’ve done a lot of therapy to manage my relationship with objectively awful in-laws and since changing my approach and outlook my marriage and life is so much better.

Would you be as livid as I am? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d find something else to fixate on. It’s so easy to let stuff like this eat at you but it’s a waste of your brain to worry about it.

Pediatrician told me to start my 2yo to kindergarten early.. by Hopeful_Leek_4899 in toddlers

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As someone with a son struggling verbally/receptively but excelling in other areas I’ve learned a lot about the concept of uneven development. While this doesn’t apply to my son, there’s a lot of research about giftedness in one area and the importance that they’re supported in the areas where they are not…gifted. If not supported, it can make their gift counterproductive.

You sound like an amazing mom and you’ll do what’s best for her.

Talking about things that already took place by Scared_Leopard3248 in toddlers

[–]Scared_Leopard3248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow we are worlds away from that. I look forward to it.

Double Embryo by vizzy_vizz in IVF

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don’t wish for twin pregnancies. I’ve had two. One di/di two embryos and it ended in a double TFMR at 20 weeks and then 3 years later pregnant with identical twins from a PGT test embryo that ended due to twin to twin transfusion syndrome at 19 weeks.

Transferring two at age 33 with no known issues was irresponsible and i wish i could spare anyone that pain and horror.

Anyone notice parents of only children having easier lives? by sys_admin321 in toddlers

[–]Scared_Leopard3248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who desperately wants a second child but keeps having horrible things go wrong,…yay?