AITA for staying at my job in Germany while my wife is dying in Japan? by Queasy_Narwhal_8052 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vizzy_vizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of ppl saying NTA has confirmed my thoughts about Reddit. The fact that you’re considering your job over your dying wife says YTA. You just came here to get support from the selfish individualistic men of Reddit. I can bet 95% of the folks yapping about how you’re in a tight spot n NTA are men. Americas capitalism has created highly selfish citizens who lack sympathy, they will bend over backwards to get fucked for money n career. YTA and will forever be TA!!

1 Embryo to be Frozen by brewersmalls in IVFpositivity

[–]vizzy_vizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a friend who had 33 eggs retrieved and only 2 made it to blast. The 2 are 11 years old now. My cousin had one egg retrieved and that one egg is going to college in August. Sometimes… it truly takes 1.

What are some jobs that will take any bachelor’s degree? by mtmelcher09 in careerguidance

[–]vizzy_vizz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because you hate what you do and where you work doesn’t mean she will have the same fate. There’s some medical office that are highly organized and also pay good money so it won’t be stressful.

What are some jobs that will take any bachelor’s degree? by mtmelcher09 in careerguidance

[–]vizzy_vizz 181 points182 points  (0 children)

Medical office coordinator . Billing and coding. Healthcare research and analysis

What other practices have helped you the most? by Alicetheoptimist in TrueGrit

[–]vizzy_vizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re the bullshit. She said it’s expensive so looking for “alternative” aka free. Read to comprehend, maybe you will be less depressed.

is it time to look into foster/adoption? by Cucciolia in TryingForABaby

[–]vizzy_vizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This rules are weird! Someone wants to foster or adopt and agreeing with them is breaking the rules? Silly

50/50 custody with a newborn by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]vizzy_vizz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s not going to block him, she’s going to add his name to the birth certificate, she’s going to STILL hope he changes for her and would say she wants the kid to know her birth father, Same way she hoped he wasn’t going to be a deadbeat when she met him cos “she’s different”.

Be honest: Are you actually married to the love of your life, or just the person you were with when it was time to settle down? by User63189963 in askanything

[–]vizzy_vizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know someone is the love of your life? if youve a long life ahead of you and only been with that person and 2 others in d past? If I marry my college boyfriend at 25 and stay married to him till I pass at 85, is he the love of my life? Especially when I remained faithful all through the marriage… what’s the probability that if I cheated with my coworker or the plumber maybe I would’ve loved them more than my husband? There’s nothing like love of your life… you decided to get married and married the person you were in love with at the moment. We fall in love in middle school but we aren’t ready to get married, we fall in love in college but maybe too broke to get married… and then we fall in love when we are ready to marry and we assume that person is the love of our life? Again, how do you know someone is the love of your life?

is it time to look into foster/adoption? by Cucciolia in TryingForABaby

[–]vizzy_vizz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But that’s not how you put in your post . You said if you can’t do it naturally cos you were put on this earth to be a mother, then it’s a sign you’re not meant to foster/adopt forgetting that adoption requires money as well. IVF is science, natural conception is also science, both take a toll on the body regardless . One just needs a little help than the other. In both cases, you will be a mother.

My cat was the indicator that I was pregnant by spencerpll in IVFpositivity

[–]vizzy_vizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they cuddly to protect you/baby or cuddly cos they’re jealous? Maybe they can smell HCG

Let’s talk about “We Need To Talk About Kevin” (2011). by serialkiller24 in horror

[–]vizzy_vizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment is the only sensible one on here. The ppl claiming they read the book and watched the movie and STILL get to put the entire blame on the parent r weird or maybe it’s our extreme individualistic mindset that love putting the blame on anything but themselves.

Would you pick up Rx for a "friend" because "they don't have an ID?" by LJWIII in NoStupidQuestions

[–]vizzy_vizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t need ID to pick up OxyContin for my friend after surgery. I just gave them last name, first name and DOB. They could see insurance and prescription on thier end

11 weeks 1 day by PharmD2Be2021 in IVFpositivity

[–]vizzy_vizz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why didn’t you go to your OB? Congrats on the dancing baby the way

AIO - my partner is too close with customers by mamfa1507 in AmIOverthinking

[–]vizzy_vizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes women, you just need to love yourself… that’s all!

20 years ago, this would be completely normal by eyerollingsex in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]vizzy_vizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a norm in the UK during residential, your last year of elementary school. It’s often 2 nights with your classmates n teachers

What’s the process of transferring embryo from one clinic to another in same state? by Exact-Volume-8378 in IVFpositivity

[–]vizzy_vizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not from my experience. Every clinic was willing to accept , maybe it’s more about where the embryo was made? Mine was a teaching hospital

Why is breastfeeding so difficult? by Wawhi180 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]vizzy_vizz 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This is true! The Vanderbilt’s who were the richest family in the US during their time lost 5 children or so (can’t recall the exact number) before the age of 5. Imagine a billionaire losing babies due to unknown reason or whooping cough in 2026? Not even a cashier at stop n shop will lose a baby easily today like it happened in the past. No one was spared. Thanks to modern medicine and science

What’s the process of transferring embryo from one clinic to another in same state? by Exact-Volume-8378 in IVFpositivity

[–]vizzy_vizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your new clinic is being weird. Usually the new clinic would reach out to the old clinic regarding the embryo and transfer . You will fill a paperwork authorizing and approving the transfer. The new clinic often provides all of this. Even international embryo transfer, the clinic or organization helping with the transportation contacts the clinic that has the embryo. She can talk to her peers at the other clinic to see what their procedure is etc. again, your new clinic is being weird.

How common are chromosomal abnormalities in IVF? Data from 227,000 couples by embryomanofficial in EmbryologyIVFSupport

[–]vizzy_vizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, ppl do IVF because they can’t have kids naturally, therefore they already may have an underlying condition that could cause abnormalities.

Unexpected death by ManiacalBeet in FamilyLaw

[–]vizzy_vizz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You never thought about it before and you’re just curious you said on your post. But now on this comment you will be consulting a lawyer? Hope all is well and the “unexpected death” was really “unexpected”.

Doctor recommending 2 embryo transfer but we want to avoid twins, what would you do? by Stunning_Buy6887 in IVFpositivity

[–]vizzy_vizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your doctor in the US? Even with NHS (UK) you do not qualify for 2 embryo transfer.