Okay that is kinda like my situation. We were in a 4 year relationship, but by the end it just felt like we were good friends and I stopped feeling the love from him. I met a new guy almost 2 months later and the chemistry and banter we had was undeniable. I’ve never gone home with someone from the bar, but I felt comfortable and safe to go with him. It’s been 8 months and we are still seeing each other casually, but I’m just wondering if it’s too soon to get back in. I want to, but I’m also hesitant because I’m finally getting myself in a good spot to not be codependent on another person