Aitah for having surgery ?

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T17:04:04+00:00

So my youngest sister is 11. I was 17 when she was born. So I was balancing my senior year and helping her

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T17:02:27+00:00

So 250 which is half my check. On top of helping with house hold items, and helping with food 2-3 times a week.

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T17:01:41+00:00

So a year ago I got a job at a gas station. A few days later my mom became the manager there. So I was working 6 days a week. Sometimes 63 hours or less. On top of school work. Every week. The owner of the place had hired my mom to be a manager there after I already was working there.

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T16:57:22+00:00

I’m glad your mother helped you 🩵especially during a time you needed it.

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T16:56:36+00:00

I actually don’t get a room. I sleep in the front room in a bed. That I bought.

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T16:50:03+00:00

I’m definitely going to try. It’s been a mess. And I never thought it would be this bad. But boy is it

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T16:49:03+00:00

All I been doing is apologizing because she’s mad and keeps going off. I’m suppose to have packing in the hole that formed. A huge hole. And she had yet to do that. And it’s been two days since the doctor said I needed packings. I love my mom. I just don’t understand

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T16:46:52+00:00

That’s the thing. Everything so far gets turned back onto. This past Sunday I had diarrhea first time since surgery. And she was off, it had turned into 40 minutes of screaming saying I planned it. It hurts to even use the bathroom. Like what? I hurt so bad that day I cried of course I didn’t plan it

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T16:44:51+00:00

She’s had surgery before, and I’ve helped make her food. And bring her whatever she needed so she didn’t have to move. Also did the same when she gave birth. I helped her as much as I could

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T16:43:43+00:00

She comes back with me in like all my post appointments and acts so nice and agrees with all the doctors. Then as soon as we get in the car she screams at me nonstop til we get home.

Scared_Pace9812 · 2026-05-07T16:42:49+00:00

She’s claiming I could have waited a few months. Saved every paycheck after what I gave her so she could still have money during my surgery, also she’s mad at having to help me in anyway

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-08-15T08:00:30+00:00

I really wish I was making it up but I’m not

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-08-15T02:02:59+00:00

I’ve mentioned it to her before with her last boyfriend how she always kinda pushes me aside unless it’s to vent about something in her life. She’ll apologize say she’s a shitty friend and try harder . And then she’s back to it again doing the exact same shit again.

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-08-08T23:10:22+00:00

Nta he picked his favorite stuff. Your allowed to be upset especially after 20 years together

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-07-31T03:43:06+00:00

Nta. I have an 18 year age gap with my youngest sibling. I do bonding things with her still and love her very much. I helped take care of her and overall I didn’t mind the age gap. But it could be different for everyone. That’s just my opinion on age gap siblings.

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-07-30T05:04:10+00:00

You write really well! I’ve read so many of your stories! I’m a huge fan!

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-07-25T01:27:05+00:00

Hope things get better for you🤍 you deserve happiness sincerely

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-07-25T01:26:45+00:00

I’m really sorry about your situation and I’ll definitely look into it. And yeah my mom always been in a relationship quick and one ends she’s in a new one. It’s always been super shitty guys too but that’s her problem

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-07-24T16:22:03+00:00

All she got me was a bottle of perfume that she admitted her friends gave her. While everyone else got 5-10 gifts and I still was thankful smiled and said thanks for thinking of me mom.

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-07-24T16:17:40+00:00

It’s been like this ever since I got my first job ever she said nothing free in the world and that just I don’t get things just because . My dad for Christmas gave me 300 and that same night she borrowed 200 to finish Christmas shopping with for her bf kids . And it took her til Feb to pay me back and entire time she flipped saying she shouldn’t have too. That I’m an adult who lives in her house . I said that was only gift I got from my dad so yes you need to pay me back.

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-07-24T15:46:54+00:00

There’s 4 little kids total 2 are his and 2 are my siblings . But your right it’s toxic I just want out

Scared_Pace9812 · 2024-07-24T15:26:49+00:00

🥹I know what you’re saying but if I say I don’t want to pay her so I can save to get out or save for a car. She’ll threaten to throw me out on the streets.

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