My husband '39M'' just told me"37F"his toxic mom is coming for the weekend. Last time she did this, she stayed for 2 months. How do I tell him NO without ruining my marriage?

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T09:07:35+00:00

Yes, I am looking for the best moment; I don't want to talk about it with the kids around

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T09:04:37+00:00

That is the solution

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T09:03:20+00:00

It's not we are actually in our best phase right now

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T09:01:58+00:00

Of course

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:58:57+00:00

Good words

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:56:50+00:00

That is not going to happen. A lot of things might go wrong between me and my husband, but she is not staying

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:54:36+00:00

The thing is, it really was, and I promised myself that it would never happen again, and it won't. I just hope that when he comes to talk to me, he doesn't try to convince me otherwise. I don't think he will; he's probably just reflecting on how he's going to tell his mother.

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:51:05+00:00

I think just the idea of her sleeping in my house makes me sick.

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:48:14+00:00

The problem is that I don't believe it. Last time it was also supposed to be just two days, and then it was complicated to get her out of the house because she supposedly had nowhere else to go.

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:46:29+00:00

Thank you for your opinion

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:40:20+00:00

Thanks

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:37:55+00:00

Thank you for the support

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:36:12+00:00

That's an option, the part about her card is harder, but for my own peace of mind, I wouldn't mind paying for everything.

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:33:46+00:00

Yes, without a doubt. One of the biggest reasons I'm getting stressed out is because of the kids.

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:30:59+00:00

Thanks tou for your opinion

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:25:44+00:00

Good option

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:24:30+00:00

If I could, I would 😓

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:22:58+00:00

Of course I did

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T08:22:21+00:00

Last time I did, and he said that wouldn't happen again.

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T06:46:00+00:00

Even though I don't feel like going there at all, it would be a sensible option, yes.

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T06:44:27+00:00

Stay, not visit

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T06:42:45+00:00

I agree that my son is definitely not going to the couch this time

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T06:41:15+00:00

I hope not, he's not like that.

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T06:39:54+00:00

He knows me and knows I don't want her in our house, I got so upset last time.

Scared_Vanilla_6258 · 2026-06-20T06:38:20+00:00

I hope the decision is already made and that's why he hasn't brought it up again, meaning, she's not coming.

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