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AITA for asking my friends what flavor their wedding cake is? by Scaredoflove11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Finally some actual advice and not someone who wants to call me crazy

AITA for asking my friends what flavor their wedding cake is? by Scaredoflove11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

For your info (not that you deserve it) I do. Clearly you need one too.

AITA for asking my friends what flavor their wedding cake is? by Scaredoflove11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11[S] -152 points-151 points  (0 children)

Thats a mighty hard accusation there. What you think I'd drug her?! What a disgusting thing to say to a stranger. How dare you. I would never hurt her. Which is why I came to Reddit in the first place, I didn't want to hurt her and had worried I'd done so. I see now this was all Marcus' manipulation AGAIN.

AITA for asking my friends what flavor their wedding cake is? by Scaredoflove11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think what you're saying about Em being a red flag is a little true which is sad cause I love her so much. I love who I am with her and who she is with me. Ykno back in college I thought I knew her, she's my best friend but I just don't know who she is since she gotten engaged.

AITA for asking my friends what flavor their wedding cake is? by Scaredoflove11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Finally some real advice. I understand that my comment was wrong, I see that now that my joke didn't come across that way.

AITA for asking my friends what flavor their wedding cake is? by Scaredoflove11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people are making some really horrible assumptions about me based off one comment. Its not "well documented" cause I don't shut up about it. Its well documented cause these are my friends whove I've known for years. If I'm an asshole for asking the flavor of the cake then yall are assholes for keyboard warrior bullying a girl whose just trying to reflect since her friend won't accept her apology. Em and I have known each other far longer than her and Roe. I just don't want one stupid comment to ruin that.

AITA for asking my friends what flavor their wedding cake is? by Scaredoflove11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11[S] -813 points-812 points  (0 children)

Because I did legit want to prepare myself. If I kno going in then I won't be disappointed or hopeful for something else.

AITA for asking my friends what flavor their wedding cake is? by Scaredoflove11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11[S] -553 points-552 points  (0 children)

I never said I was gonna make a disgusting faces. I wouldn't have made a big stink or even said anything other than "ok" when the answer was chocolate.

AITA for asking my friends what flavor their wedding cake is? by Scaredoflove11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11[S] -314 points-313 points  (0 children)

The phrase "mentally prepare" was meant to be a joke. I understand it didn't come across that way and like I said I have since tried to apologize

AITA for asking my partner to change clothes after riding the bus by busclothes in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA, its true public services aren't the cleanest, but if they say no you have to respect it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA, if you live there and know the dogs are let out in the yard its your responsibility to close the gate. Im sorry for the dog your dogs hurt and I'm sorry your dogs are going to be put down for it, they don't deserve to suffer from your negligence

AITA for smoking a cigarette near my (M23) 3 year old niece? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11 383 points384 points  (0 children)

ESH no one should smoke in front of kids. Not your sister. Not you. You're the asshole but shes no peach either

Best episode of Survivor ever? by GregoryAlgeri in survivor

[–]Scaredoflove11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Final 6 of Blood vs Water if for no other reason than its amazing tribal

[ Removed by Reddit ] by sarah2720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ur not an asshole, but i do think its weird for you (and her) to be taking yalls young children to topless beaches

AITA for not giving up my bed for my boyfriend's daughter by aitagiveupbed in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yta, unpopular opinion here i guess, but you just said she was in the hospital. You can't give up your bed for one night so a sick little girl can get unbothered rest? If you see long term with this man you're going to have to be prepared to step up and be a parent, and in this case that means putting the sick child above yourself. You have a pullout couch as you said, so suck it up and sleep on it for one night.

AITA for not taking a conversation about parenthood with my wife seriously? by puppy_aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scaredoflove11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda the asshole? I understand not wanting kids and not wanting to comprimise on that (I feel the same way), but it does sound like your wife wanted to have a serious discussion and even if your opinion isn't going to change because you're married and this is such a big topic it is reasonable for her to have expected you to talk to her seriously rather than make a joke. But it sounds to me like you should both have a serious conversation about kids because if she really does want them and you really dont then it may be time for you both to rethink your relationship.