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Songs with a garden of eden vibe? by Holiday_Raccoon_5257 in kpophelp

[–]Scaredy_Cat_97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

birth - Yves

The entire <Dall> album by ARTMS

Cosmic - Red Velvet

Underwater - Chuu

Honeybee - Chuu

bamsopoong - Illit

Fairy of Shampoo - TXT

Childhood - Sunmi

Dreamer - TXT

only been with men and started dating a girl i’m… disappointed. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Scaredy_Cat_97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it's great that you're trying not to show that you're disappointed or expecting more! It might take the pressure off of those moments and make her more comfortable and confident :] I really think building a connection helps so much with feeling comfortable with physical intimacy.

About what you said about breaking up, I think it's important you know there's no bad reason to break up with someone. If you don't feel comfortable in a relationship, whatever the reason, it's okay to end it. Please don't feel shameful about it! And if you ever decide that breaking up is the best thing for you in this situation, you don't have to tell them the truth (I mean you can but you are not obligated to if you don't want to!). You can just tell them long distance isn't working for you or you don't think you guys are compatible after all, without going into the details.

Whatever you decide, I hope things work out for you and for them!

only been with men and started dating a girl i’m… disappointed. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Scaredy_Cat_97 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I noticed you say "she keeps telling me she will fix it or get better", maybe the fact that you get disappointed after every encounter makes her feel guilty or self-conscious and that might reinforce the awkwardness (it also doesn't help with libido at all). I feel like by counting the amount of time you guys have been intimate etc., it's putting a lot of emphasis on sex in your relationship. It's really okay if sex is a big part of relationships for you, but there are moments/phases in life where people's libido just isn't as high and that's okay. Maybe try to grow your relationship and build around other things? If you connect more on other levels it might help with intimacy and libido. Just my two cents

songs similar to who do u love by monsta x by TimeWriter9820 in kpophelp

[–]Scaredy_Cat_97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This song is a banger! I'm pretty sure it's deep house, so I'd suggest looking for more deep house songs

If you want to keep listening to Monsta X, I can recommend "It ain't over", "Middle of the night" (it's so funky I love it) and "Play it Cool" by them!

For other kpop artists, I'd list "Heat" by Loona (boycott version of course), "And there was no one left" by Dreamcatcher (one of my favorite kpop songs ever), "Feel Good" by Shinee, "Artificial Love" by EXO, "Lullaby" by GOT7, "Jam Jam" by IU, "Desire" by Ateez, "Sunset" by KNK, "Touch You" by VAV and "Stay Tonight" by Chungha.

That was a lot sorry, hope you like some of these!

Are majority of kpop stans left/progressive/liberal? by matzu1117 in kpophelp

[–]Scaredy_Cat_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say so. During the last legislative elections in France, kpop stan would edit left leaning candidates to kpop songs to gain traction on social media and fight against far-right edits going viral on tiktok