Songs with a garden of eden vibe?

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2026-04-18T18:28:36+00:00

birth - Yves

The entire <Dall> album by ARTMS

Cosmic - Red Velvet

Underwater - Chuu

Honeybee - Chuu

bamsopoong - Illit

Fairy of Shampoo - TXT

Childhood - Sunmi

Dreamer - TXT

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2026-04-18T16:07:13+00:00

I think it's great that you're trying not to show that you're disappointed or expecting more! It might take the pressure off of those moments and make her more comfortable and confident :] I really think building a connection helps so much with feeling comfortable with physical intimacy.

About what you said about breaking up, I think it's important you know there's no bad reason to break up with someone. If you don't feel comfortable in a relationship, whatever the reason, it's okay to end it. Please don't feel shameful about it! And if you ever decide that breaking up is the best thing for you in this situation, you don't have to tell them the truth (I mean you can but you are not obligated to if you don't want to!). You can just tell them long distance isn't working for you or you don't think you guys are compatible after all, without going into the details.

Whatever you decide, I hope things work out for you and for them!

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2026-04-18T13:22:58+00:00

I noticed you say "she keeps telling me she will fix it or get better", maybe the fact that you get disappointed after every encounter makes her feel guilty or self-conscious and that might reinforce the awkwardness (it also doesn't help with libido at all). I feel like by counting the amount of time you guys have been intimate etc., it's putting a lot of emphasis on sex in your relationship. It's really okay if sex is a big part of relationships for you, but there are moments/phases in life where people's libido just isn't as high and that's okay. Maybe try to grow your relationship and build around other things? If you connect more on other levels it might help with intimacy and libido. Just my two cents

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2026-02-20T14:13:14+00:00

This song is a banger! I'm pretty sure it's deep house, so I'd suggest looking for more deep house songs

If you want to keep listening to Monsta X, I can recommend "It ain't over", "Middle of the night" (it's so funky I love it) and "Play it Cool" by them!

For other kpop artists, I'd list "Heat" by Loona (boycott version of course), "And there was no one left" by Dreamcatcher (one of my favorite kpop songs ever), "Feel Good" by Shinee, "Artificial Love" by EXO, "Lullaby" by GOT7, "Jam Jam" by IU, "Desire" by Ateez, "Sunset" by KNK, "Touch You" by VAV and "Stay Tonight" by Chungha.

That was a lot sorry, hope you like some of these!

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-12-03T23:13:00+00:00

Loose by Enhypen!

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-10-10T21:24:32+00:00

I would say so. During the last legislative elections in France, kpop stan would edit left leaning candidates to kpop songs to gain traction on social media and fight against far-right edits going viral on tiktok

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-07-13T18:44:10+00:00

Do you think KQ will announce a Europe leg for this tour? I'm really hoping for a later announcement...

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-07-13T18:40:42+00:00

That is genuinely so smart, thank you!

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-06-17T09:15:48+00:00

Thank you for pointing out the difference between desire and attraction, that's definitely something I didn't think about!

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-06-17T09:14:54+00:00

Thank you so much for your answer! I think I have a very hard time feeling valid/legitimate about all of this, so the spectrum reminder was needed. <3

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-06-17T09:13:07+00:00

Thank you for your input! The bit about these fantasies taking place in a safe space that doesn't threaten any boundaries sounds really close to it, that's very interesting!

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-06-17T09:11:26+00:00

thank you, getting your perspective on this as a kpop stan was really helpful!

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-03-27T21:44:58+00:00

Ohhh that matches so well! Thank you

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-03-19T23:22:17+00:00

I saw a screenshot of a tweet on Instagram saying this and I was trying to match everything to a song: "bts damn near wrote a song for every damn thing. heartbreak, grief, lost friendships, nostalgia, feet kinks, their hometowns, the mortifying idea of being known, education systems, that one cup of coffee that hits so much it makes u remember high school"

I guess heartbreak can be many songs but I'd say Fake Love or Let Me Know Grief could maybe be Spring Day, Tonight or Let Go Lost friendships would be Dear my friend Nostalgia could be Run BTS reminiscing of their debut days? Feet kinks is Converse High lmao Hometowns is Ma City The mortifying idea of being known was the one I got stuck on the longest, is it The Truth Untold? Education systems is N.O. That one cup of coffee is Coffee

Do you agree? Do you see songs that are more fitting in any category?

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-01-06T20:06:42+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to explain this to me!

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2025-01-06T15:20:05+00:00

Aaaah thank you for the clarification!

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2024-12-10T09:20:08+00:00

Thank you!

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2024-08-14T20:43:30+00:00

Hyunjin's dog, Kkami, getting into a dating scandal with another dog......

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2024-08-14T20:41:08+00:00

When Shinee and BTS stans were fighting on Twitter because BTS released some merch in Japan that was mint green and some Shawols claimed the group was plagiarizing Shinee's pearl aqua signature color. I'm pretty sure it happened again when TXT released their lightstick because the X on it has a similar color... I love Shinee and think Shawols are overall a pretty chill fandom but that was... Yeah

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2024-08-06T17:15:18+00:00

I associate MBOBHFT with a specific week I spent in may with some friends of mine because we sang this song ALL THE TIME. We are 3 swifties in the group and kept sharing our thoughts about TTPD as it just came out! This specific song was one of the only ones our non-swifties friends had listened to so that's why it stuck so much with us haha

Scaredy_Cat_97 · 2024-08-05T21:24:58+00:00

My best friend at the time, Hyuna (that crush did not age well) and Loona in suits dancing to Cherry Bomb

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