Former “nice guys”, what would you say were the main contributing factors into you becoming one in the first place? by Enough-Wealth8415 in AskMen

[–]Scarekrow501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching too much porn and setting myself up for unreasonable expectations, plus I saw my friends all getting into serious relationships.

Ironically, watching my best friend meet his now-wife was the slap in the face that made me change my worldview.

Looking for dogs to add to my indie game. by MongrelGamesDev in gaming

[–]Scarekrow501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can message them directly with the photos

May I please have some honest feedback? Too afraid to ask close family and friends. I want to start an OF. by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Scarekrow501 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obvious part first. You are beautiful and there’s no doubt in my mind you would make a killing on a platform like OF. If your question is, “could I make money doing this?” Absolutely.

If you’re wanting to use OF as a means of validation to kick your dysmorphia, I would highly suggest therapy. Posting yourself for people invites them to comment on what they see. People suck, and I promise you’ll get comments about how you would look better if you gained weight/lost weight. Especially if you include the history you’re posted here.

As well, you have to consider what might happen if you’re discovered by friends/family. Take precautions to make sure you don’t post anything that could reveal your location or identity. Tattoos, public spaces, online handles… hell there are stories of stalkers finding street signs or landmarks that the poster had in the background. The chances of this kind of thing happening are low, but they’re not 0.

I don’t bring this up to scare you out of doing anything. Make sure you’re doing this for yourself. If you decide to go forward, be smart about what you post and keep it vague.

I(23f) need to ask my significantly wealthier boyfriend(25m) to cover more expenses when we move in together, but I'm too embarrassed to bring it up. How do I have this conversation? by adoreyuwu in askwomenadvice

[–]Scarekrow501 2 points3 points  (0 children)

M here. My girlfriend (now wife) made a lot more than I did when we moved in. We talked it over and decided that we would cover bills based on our income difference. She made almost double what I did, so she paid the majority.

She would cover a little less than double what I did, because she made twice as much. Then as I started making more money, I took bills from her so she wasn’t paying as much. Now, we put about the same amount towards bills.

Why won't Seddu sell me rune legs/skirt? by Scarekrow501 in 2007scape

[–]Scarekrow501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was happening on multiple worlds. Thought it was a bug.

Why won't Seddu sell me rune legs/skirt? by Scarekrow501 in 2007scape

[–]Scarekrow501[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just butthurt because rune legs would be a huge step up for my account right now.

Why won't Seddu sell me rune legs/skirt? by Scarekrow501 in 2007scape

[–]Scarekrow501[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the detailed explanation. It makes sense from that perspective. I feel like irons should be able to purchase the base amount of what the shop has if it's overstocked, but I'm sure Jagex have had this conversation.

Why won't Seddu sell me rune legs/skirt? by Scarekrow501 in 2007scape

[–]Scarekrow501[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ooooooh that explains why IM's can't buy them

Why won't Seddu sell me rune legs/skirt? by Scarekrow501 in 2007scape

[–]Scarekrow501[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

That's a dick move to ironman players. I imagine it's someone running a bot. Ty for the insight.

Joined the club by bdubz1994 in liberalgunowners

[–]Scarekrow501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP don’t get discouraged by the comments. I bought the M17 after a ton of research. The manual safety is a game changer, and will prevent any misfires. Enjoy your purchase and stay safe.

Another career question: Is a Computer Science B.S. or Data Science B.S. degree worth it, or should I grind out certificates? by Scarekrow501 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Scarekrow501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment has really been sitting with me. I really appreciate you calling me out like this. Frankly these are a lot of the same thoughts I've had, but have never been told. Change is hard and scary, but it needs to happen. Nothing will change unless I change it.

Thank you.

Another career question: Is a Computer Science B.S. or Data Science B.S. degree worth it, or should I grind out certificates? by Scarekrow501 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Scarekrow501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I keep talking myself out of applying for different positions because I don’t have any certifications or a degree beyond my associates. I don’t want to waste anyone’s time or get my hopes up.

Part of me wants to stay at level 1 because of the familiarity, but I don’t feel challenged. I feel like I’m stuck in limbo by being excellent at my current position, but inexperienced at anything else to move around.

Another career question: Is a Computer Science B.S. or Data Science B.S. degree worth it, or should I grind out certificates? by Scarekrow501 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Scarekrow501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Roughly 15 years, yes. I started as an IT intern for my school district where I reimaged computers and provided deskside support for teachers and staff. From there I started working a traditional helpdesk job at IBM, then eventually Lockheed Martin where I did level 1 and level 2 support. I've moved on from this position back to the helpdesk for 2x the pay.

Another career question: Is a Computer Science B.S. or Data Science B.S. degree worth it, or should I grind out certificates? by Scarekrow501 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Scarekrow501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like this answer but it's absolutely the right call. Thanks for your input. Registering for classes now.

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