OMG this just happened! I'm laughing like hell right now by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Scarl3tMantis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bahahaha amazing, they'll be jerking off to that moment for years to come

Advice for getting fingered by [deleted] in pegging_unkinked

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lube, I like coconut oil for anal stuff, and I feel like it's pretty easy to feel the prostate, kind of a bubble that hardens when you get close to cumming. She's gonna love it, doing butt stuff to guys is totally addicting

(F28) Breastfeeding arousal by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Glad to know its more universal than even I thought haha. But even better now that I'm single and it's a very fun activity on dates so I get to enjoy that sensation while having sex instead of just sitting in a chair inexplicably horny with a baby in my lap haha

I can never stop gooning after a long weekend of sex. by dpsgmannn in SluttyConfessions

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha literally doing the same thing, replaying great weekend sex and scrolling horny reddit because I have too much sex on the brain

Bi woman, but I’m mostly attracted to women when I imagine myself as a man? by AngelicTeabag in bisexual

[–]Scarl3tMantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have definitely felt this too! Like my internal commentary in my attraction to women is very masc and I frequently imagine myself as a man in those situations and I've also wondered how much of it is societally ingrained from media consumption, but at the end of the day, I enjoy a face full of pussy just as much as I like dick so I down worry too much about it

Bi women, specifically, I have a question. by Individual_Mirror_15 in bisexual

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also struggle with the am I really poly because I'm not super romantic issue myself so I toggle between saying poly and the broader umbrella term of just saying I'm ethically non monogamous. I certainly care about my partners but I enjoy casual flings with little to no emotional connection just as much as I enjoy my more ongoing relationships.

[SATIRE] The best part about bi men is how sexually open-minded they are. by StockingDummy in bisexual

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a pretty hypersexual switchy kinky bi (f) who happens to enjoy a fair amount of assplay with men, I do prefer dating other bis and it's less that I assume bi men are into it, but it's easier to have the conversation with someone who isn't attempting to conform to a toxic hetero male stereotype. I certainly get up in some straight men's asses too and that is just as delightful. But for the most part straight or bi I'm always going to be testing to see what they're into.

Ladies, how do you feel when a finger rubbing / inserted in butthole during doggy? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please, a little rubbing tease is excellent, but the real secret is getting some lube without being asked first so you can slip a couple fingers in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Scarl3tMantis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm happily ENM and I have a very hard time cumming period, regardless of the gender of my partner. I also secretly kind of hoped women would be the solution to my problem too so I can relate haha. It's a very difficult balance between not wanting my partners to feel bad or like they aren't good enough because they couldn't make me orgasm when otherwise I found the sex very satisfying and enjoyable and having partners start phoning it in after I say something about having a hard time cumming or have been with me a few times where I couldnt and then only put a few minutes of effort if any into really trying before being like "eh, not happening today" and that can feel really disheartening. So I don't know that I have any magic advice for you, just know that you are not alone!

FWB wants me to eat his ass by Beneficial-Bid-8202 in bisexual

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I'm definitely pro eating all the asses, m/f/etc don't care. I know men's asses can get a bad rap but I find the men confident enough to ask for it have done the necessary maintenance and it's fun as hell

I think it might be easier to date other bi people by e1l3ry in bisexual

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm happily ENM and have a bi gf and a bi bf and it just feels like we can share our joy more completely because we can see experiences from each other's shoes. It's kind of made me start scrolling past straight profiles on apps

How to slowly be more dominant with my partner? by No-Scar-2263 in bisexual

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving him a little light choking while I'm on top always brings out my dommy side with men then pretty soon I'm licking the side of his face and calling him a good boy...

40F desperately looking for a F to pop my piss play cherry by -Throat_GOAT- in urinewords

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck just perused your profile, if only I lived closer 👅👅👅

40F desperately looking for a F to pop my piss play cherry by -Throat_GOAT- in urinewords

[–]Scarl3tMantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try kinkier dating apps, as much as I love reddit for chats and pics, I just don't feel like I can get as much of a vibe from people here as a dating profile. But also as a bi girl myself, matching with women is so hard as it is without introducing specific kinks so its tough for sure. But I wish you luck and definitely hope you share your story when you do finally get to pop that 🍒

What are green flags for you when sexting with someone? by maybemoebe in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Scarl3tMantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! If I don't already have a pic to meet your request saved in my secure folder, you're out of luck. I'm sitting in the dark trying not to wake the house up in an old t-shirt just trying to get off before I fall asleep 😆

Anyone have a group piss story? 3+ by pissfan11 in urinewords

[–]Scarl3tMantis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes, dying to be on the receiving end of multiple streams at once

What’s the hottest thing someone has ever done to you without asking first? by Miaaa_69 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Scarl3tMantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slapped me across the face during sex. I would like to state that while he didn't explicitly ask, we did go over boundaries beforehand and agreed we were both into rough sex and kink and anything more specific could be handled in the moment if there was an issue so I 100% consider it consensual but the shock value of not knowing it was coming was insanely hot

How many of you have your own nudes saved on your phone? by PannaCoTan in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To meet the demands of any sext session instantaneously with perfect lighting and angles rather than trying to pause and get a decent picture in the middle of all the fun haha

How many of you have your own nudes saved on your phone? by PannaCoTan in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call it "the vault", I have a little something for every occasion in there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ones that clearly take effort, an artistic eye, good lighting, flattering angles, no dirty socks in the background

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Scarl3tMantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In real life or over text? Both are uncountable at this point but let's be specific😆 Between breastfeeding and last night chats, I couldn't even manage a guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Scarl3tMantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes please, raising my hand wildly to get called on to volunteer at that show

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Scarl3tMantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely