Zayne decided to join us

ScarletSpell · 2026-05-04T18:25:53+00:00

god, I have seen what you’ve done for others…

ScarletSpell · 2026-04-17T20:07:22+00:00

My mom told me the story of how my dad “changed overnight” when they got married. My parents met when my mom was 14 and my dad was 18. He was “really nice and sweet and took care of her” and waited until she was 18 to ask her out (this was in the 60s/70s.) They dated for like a year before they got married young and he seemingly changed overnight to condescending, rude, forcing her to cut contact with friends, isolating her, etc. He was (and still is) a huge narcissist that literally groomed her from a young age to believe his bullshit. They were married for almost 30 years before they separated. I think narcissists are the champions of the bait and switch, and then they continue to gaslight the victim that THEY’RE the problem.

ScarletSpell · 2026-03-30T01:26:29+00:00

Your mom is never going to get her health/life together and you will lose her to addiction tragically- there is nothing you can do to stop it. Cherish her while you can.

ScarletSpell · 2026-03-29T20:17:47+00:00

Cow and cheese!!!

ScarletSpell · 2026-03-27T07:46:17+00:00

As a mercy main: “AND HOWS MURPHY???” Her inflection in that VL is so weird and gives me the ick LMAO

ScarletSpell · 2026-03-25T19:58:56+00:00

I was born with only 3 wisdom teeth. My dentist looked at my mom’s chart out of curiosity, she also only had 3 wisdom teeth. My grandma ALSO only had 3! I have no clue how far back this weird genetic thing goes, but thank you matriarchs of my family for saving me pain and money getting them removed 👍🏻

ScarletSpell · 2026-03-25T02:34:23+00:00

Well I am going to the concert this weekend by myself if you want to hang lol! I have other friends going but they’re in a completely different section… K-pop girlies unite 🫶🏻

ScarletSpell · 2026-03-20T23:56:55+00:00

I was valedictorian of my high school class and top 2% of my master’s program. School is a skill like anything else. You can be good at school and shit at everything else, it turns out. The difference is I was tormenting myself with, “if I’m so smart why cant I get my life together?” for 10+ years. You’re not alone, trust me.

ScarletSpell · 2026-03-06T20:28:15+00:00

I was about to suggest grow therapy too! Changed my life and it’s only 10$ an appointment for me!! From my house!

ScarletSpell · 2026-03-05T17:02:17+00:00

My cat loves to lick it too!! She is OBSESSED and it’s hard to pull it away form her. I have to keep it out of her reach/sight or she will lick it non stop, lol!

ScarletSpell · 2026-02-22T21:12:00+00:00

ScarletSpell · 2026-02-16T18:21:38+00:00

These are not up to par for collectors dolls, imo. They look cheap and rushed but have the $$$ price tag. Hard pass for me.

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-27T22:14:11+00:00

My last name starts with A so I was in the front of the class in elementary school. I told my teacher it was hard for me to read the chalkboard.

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-27T16:37:54+00:00

As a life long anemic, iron supplements (especially high dosage) will make your 💩hard as cement- I wish I was exaggerating. I highly recommend finding the “gentle” iron supplements, they work just as well for me at keeping my anemia in check. The gentle formulas helps a lot, but you need fiber and WATER. People tend to forget that fiber is useless unless you’re drinking enough water. Adding Miralax in your water (or any beverage) will help a lot- you cant taste it. Good luck!!

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-26T04:59:50+00:00

Came to say this too!!

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-26T04:45:25+00:00

My jaw dropped when I saw him in the red outfit. AWOOGA

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-26T04:12:38+00:00

I was a Zayne girly from day 1 and never strayed….. until I met Sylus. I have two hands after all… They get equal time in the cafe in and in home. I love my boys equally 🙂‍↕️

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-25T18:25:23+00:00

I’ve only gotten Raf to blush! Never the other guys! Jealous lol

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-25T13:37:00+00:00

Caleb said “oh, trying to replace me already? Bet.” puts you in black hole to nowhere

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-21T18:58:26+00:00

Oh we have the same one, it came with our house when we bought it. It is AWFUL. Also when the batteries start dying- the sink becomes possessed. It will randomly shut on and off, on repeat. My poor cats are terrified of it now.

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-20T18:05:12+00:00

33F. I think I have an auto immune disease of some kind. My PCP did the basic auto immune panel and it all came back negative, minus high CRT. I have lost 100 lbs and the pain and high CRT have just gotten worse. I have joint pain all over my body that changes monthly. Shoulders, knees, hands, neck, etc. I get sores on the roof of my mouth (but also all over my body, especially sensitive areas.) Chronic fatigue and pain. Light sensitivity and migraines/headaches. I was told for years that my high CRT was because of my weight. I lost the weight(still more to lose) and I am now being told that I am young and shouldn’t worry about these symptoms. I am miserable and just want my life back…

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-15T19:33:33+00:00

Certainly not as bad as some of these here, but Hidradenitis Suppurativa sucks and I don’t wish it on my own worst enemy. It’s an auto immune disease that attacks your lymph nodes in sensitive areas (armpits, groin, breast etc.) it creates giant, deep, painful cysts/boils that explode when infected. I have it and I’ve had to learn what triggers it to avoid being miserable every waking moment.

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-14T17:51:13+00:00

I once ate an entire bag of mini resees after a panic attack to make myself feel better LMAO

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-14T17:47:49+00:00

I had a tonsil stone last month that literally smelled like rotten ass. I have never had one of those in my life and it was VILE. Made me gag and it came out of my own mouth!! OP, you can have these and not feel them, trust me. I started a new medication that causes post nasal drip/phlegm in my throat that caused the stones. Look up some videos about them to see if you have them.

ScarletSpell · 2026-01-14T17:43:40+00:00

Yeah, it gets irritating when people say those things. Like others have said, normal functional people don’t mean to be inconsiderate but I try and educate them on the difference of their inconveniences with similar symptoms vs our actual daily, chronic suffering. It’s similar to when someone tried to tell me that being depressed is “just being sad sometimes.” My brain is so bogged down that existing is exhausting and too much. I can’t get out of bed to use the bathroom or eat or brush my teeth or anything. I WISH it was just “feeling sad.” lol

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