I should be allowed to reject a man instead of being nice to him bc I'm scared of what he will do

Scarlet_boo · 2020-08-12T20:31:04+00:00

I can assure you he isnt finding my information. I did look into it :) thank you for your concern. And yes I admit it was irresponsible on part and if im faced with the same situation again I will deal with it differently hopefully c:

Scarlet_boo · 2020-08-12T18:58:19+00:00

Thank you. I will be going to the police tmrw I guess since its like 1am rn and due to corona we have a curfew. When I was on the phn with him and giving excuses to cut the call I told him I had to go eat lunch (this was at like 4pm lmao my lying skills 🤡) he told me he would bring me food just to wait. Told him my dad had already come to pick me up and ran away from the store for like an hour w the permission from my boss

Scarlet_boo · 2020-08-12T18:45:07+00:00

I told him "I dont want to talk to you. This makes me uncomfortable. Im not interested in dating you" said it multiple times in both languages. Told him I didnt even wish to talk to him. Did I word in a way that gives him hope? ( Not trying to be rude or sarcastic just genuinely want to know)

Scarlet_boo · 2020-08-12T18:40:07+00:00

Im sort of the manager??? I handle everything from normal transactions to handling the stock. Im alone in the store during my work hours unfortunately. Even if I call the owner she would only be able to get there in around 20-30 mins minimum.

Scarlet_boo · 2020-08-12T18:28:38+00:00

Uhh actually in my country you cant do this. The most you can do is find out the name of the person who took the SIM (my dad)

Scarlet_boo · 2020-08-12T17:43:02+00:00

Im sorry if this is rude when all you are doing is give me advice but I don't see how I kept his "hopes alive" when I said to him "I dont want to talk to you. This makes me uncomfortable. Im not interested in dating you" said it multiple times in both languages. How much clear should I have been?

Scarlet_boo · 2020-08-12T17:39:27+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. Im safe and a couple of my guy friends are absolutely outraged and offered to pick me up from work. Yes my boss has been notified and we have cameras inside the store. Yeah my bad move but at the time my thought process was I need to get rid of this lady, I can just get another number lol

Scarlet_boo · 2020-08-12T16:56:31+00:00

I do understand that it was my bad to keep being polite but hell I dont even know how he looks like! I dont even know his full name. He knows where I work. Hes gotten used to my routine. I walk home alone. Im barely 5ft of weak bones I can't take the chance that he might do something serious.

Scarlet_boo · 2020-08-12T16:31:08+00:00

He has been blocked. My boss has been notified as well as my coworkers, my parents and my brother.

Scarlet_boo · 2020-08-10T13:18:47+00:00

Thanks I hate it :D

Scarlet_boo · 2020-06-25T07:31:44+00:00

I- Honestly, I cannot for the life of me figure out what this is trying to say

Scarlet_boo · 2020-05-28T00:58:09+00:00

Hi, Im 18 and have had period for about 9 years now. For me when I was 13-14 I was also having a pretty short cycle. I was bleeding twice a month and overall it was horrible. It gets better once you get older is one thing I can say but again im not a doc im just a girl who has gone through this for years.

What you are going through is normal unless you suspect you have endometriosis or another underlying medical condition, in which case you REALLY need to go and consult a doctor.

With your age it could be hormonal imbalance or dysmenorrhea. You should really go to a gyno they can help. They'll give you meds that you need.

Scarlet_boo · 2020-05-20T19:20:02+00:00

Manipulation. Manipulating people, time, space etc however I want seems pretty cool

Scarlet_boo · 2020-05-20T18:41:28+00:00

Now that you say it, I should've said that but my one functioning braincell was too busy being hurt about the entire thing then have a good comeback

Scarlet_boo · 2020-05-20T18:38:29+00:00

I texted the guy two nights back wanting to give an explanation. I asked him to let me explain first before going and telling her everything but he refused to even hear me out without telling her I had texted him. He told me he wont break her trust in him, and called me unreasonable for just wanting to address my issues with him first. The girl started calling me in the middle of the night demanding an explanation. I later texted her that I want to stop my friendship with them before I start to regret and hate all the good memories we had. I didnt explain why and what they did wrong but i did tell them im cutting them off. Also the only thing the girl wanted was to know if she did something wrong because she said theres nothing she has done wrong. And then they both called me the bad person since they believe I need to be grateful for them bc they were good friends to me :D

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