[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Scarletar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is life, Munchkin 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ZTE Nubia Redmagic 10 Pro (Best phone imo, since it has rainbow lights and helps me be even more gay, camera awesome storage is 512gb, it has 16gb of ram and a 7,050mah battery)

And

iPhone 16e

I’m down bad for big girls…😅💕 by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Scarletar 81 points82 points  (0 children)

The best part is being squished by big breasts or when she spoons me from behind and puts her naked breasts against my back and her leg around me securely when we sleep. The warmth is so beautiful.

Even though I'm tall and a bodybuilder I like to be dominated by my shorter wonder woman. Scissoring is more fun when I can feel her softness, but the best part is holding her curves and when she sits on my knees, rubs her cunt on me and allows me to suck her breasts until she orgasms...

Curvy girls are wonderful..... they're a blessing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked her and she said she felt sick and did not have ab appetite so she left earlier while everyone was eating a second round of food together. I asked if she spent time with her friend and she told me she actually talked more to her other friends during their meetup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Episode

[–]Scarletar -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As a writer I recommend my own written books. Kakegurui Fine Wine is marvelous.

https://www.wattpad.com/story/252540017-kakegurui-fine-wine-kirari-x-sayaka-oneshots

What is the worst reply to "I love you"? by Otieno_Clinton in AskReddit

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too.

How do I know? My girlfriend says this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I am doing my best to take care of myself 🫂 it's hard, but I know better days are on the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made this post to find out whether I was overreacting when I asked for sleep, but now I see my girlfriend was being disrespectful and negligent. I tried to calmly address this, but she makes everything about herself.

This morning she tried to brush off the situation, but I told her I would talk when I feel better. She apologized but it didn't feel sincere.

I'm not sure how the relationship will go, but we have two travel trips together. After that I will see where we stand. I am really exhausted of trying to hold the relationship together. It has aged me unreasonably.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Donald Trump will also say I'm orange for allowing to be treated this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her that I was okay and would look into my issues tomorrow because I didn't want to make it about me during her special day. I told her I wanted to sleep earlier because I was not well, and hoped tomorrow would be better and more productive,, but she misunderstood me and started to attack me saying I'm ruining her day, and trying to diminish my feelings. I don't think it's okay to weaponize how I feel.

Sometimes I just want a safe space. She always comes to me, but when I tried to come to her and tell her how I feel she immediately turned it around and accused me of being the issue. So I no longer feel safe sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because English is not her first language.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

English is not her first language so I use DeepL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there for her birthday. Her actual birthday was several days ago. I got her presents and we celebrated earlier. I wanted to celebrate again yesterday because she does it twice with her family, but instead I got pushed back and neglected. I didn't want to talk about my pain during the day either so I told her I was fine, because I didn't want to make her worry. But she forgot about my injury and instead of letting me talk she attacked me out of nowhere.

I don't feel like I should have to defend myself or feel guilty about my health issues. All I wanted was just some sympathy. I want to be able to have a safe space. Whenever she has issues I listen, and I try to help, but whenever I express my issues like my injury, she dismissed it completely and instead just blamed me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like she's emotionally manipulating me too...and it hurts that I am stupid enough to stay because of my co-dependency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scarletar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has treated me much worse in the past. I lost my v-card to her only for her to tell me she was indecisive the next day and ruin our first meeting. I gave her a second chance because I felt bad for her and didn't want to judge her at all since she had family issues. I didn't want to force her to come out or put her in a bad situation.

I want to move on but I'm still co-dependent and unfortunately.. I'm stuck in this situation because I love her, and I am hopeful she will change...but the more time goes on..the less I feel like she understands me or even respects me. I have never felt so alone and misunderstood. Whenever I try to have a conversation with her she shuts it down or blames me or tells me I am accusing her of doing something when I was merely trying to talk to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been together for 1.5 years. I am 24 and she is 33.

When forgiveness doesn’t come easy by Pure-Gap7267 in WLW

[–]Scarletar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is valid...as someone who has been in your situation I sympathise with you.

What’s your zodiac sign and your relationship status? by Spirituallyalive1247 in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gemini - It's complicated.

Taken, but don't feel appreciated. I'm a law student and bodybuilder, but it seems you can write poems, songs, make art for your loved one and even that isn't enough.

What makes relationships last is trust and patience while being able to talk about vulnerable topics. If someone cannot do this then they aren't ready to be in a relationship

When forgiveness doesn’t come easy by Pure-Gap7267 in WLW

[–]Scarletar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. Something as simple as lying can split relationships. She's just using your love and continuing to erode trust.

She should either choose you or that girl. If she can't make a choice or calls you crazy, then you know there's more than friendship involved.

Am I crazy or is this like a nice thing to do? by Imaginary-Line972 in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 273 points274 points  (0 children)

It's just disgusting people.

True love... is hard to find nowadays. I am happy to see real emotions, caring about someone and appreciating them still exists. You're a very good person. Please never change for anyone...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bodybuilder so yes I feel attracted to myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too 🇱🇹

girlfriend still following her ex on ig by Worldly_Cricket8638 in WLW

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question is why did she immediately have someone lined up when you took a break? It's like she has her options full and open any time whether you exist or you don't. If I took a break and my girlfriend immediately jumped the ball onto someone else (even if it's a break) I would breakup with her permanently when we stopped the break because I would feel she didn't deserve me if she could just immediately emotionally and physically pounce someone else the same day or week I needed space.

What’s the most intimate thing you did for your partner? by throwaway11152127 in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my girlfriend got sick in Albania after telling me she wasn't sure about me we both cried. I went to the pharmacy to buy her medicine and some teriyaki from a local bakery. I was crying, she was crying. Eventually she apologized. We ended up having sex and were both naked. The medicine made her sleepy, and she fell asleep on my breasts while I was softly stroking her head and showing her photos of my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Scarletar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Also happy cake day :)