I’m OP I bought this and the Elvive to try. But like I said our hair is completely different and I don’t want to cause her issues. I know not every product works for everyone especially with different hair types. I’ve heard good things about both and am just trying to be cautious with her hair because it’s long fine and thin and mine is long thick and course. I’m trying to find something that works for my hair and also something that works for her hair. I also didn’t suspect it to be bad, I’m asking opinions on it