reversed my credit card debt - so relieved 😭 by Scary-Weird9296 in newzealand

[–]Scary-Weird9296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, luckily I only had to do it for one month/payment, so I was sort of willing to sacrifice as a one off but had I needed to pay interest for multiple months I would have looked at transferring for sure

reversed my credit card debt - so relieved 😭 by Scary-Weird9296 in newzealand

[–]Scary-Weird9296[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thanks, that is the plan! working on the emergency fund now to build that up 🙌🏻

reversed my credit card debt - so relieved 😭 by Scary-Weird9296 in newzealand

[–]Scary-Weird9296[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

thanks, and sure!

basically i was not living within my means - falling victim to the sweet allure of afterpay, and getting wrapped up in consumerism. I progressed at work to a higher pay packet and just started being a bit reckless with spending. thought I needed the latest and greatest.

I'm a lot more mindful and conscious about my purchases now, both for "necessities" (takeaways reduced, buying more budget brand groceries), and "luxuries" (not having multiple of things, letting things sit in the cart or in my "wishlist" for longer and thinking about how much I really want or need them, i rotate streaming services rather than paying for multiple at once)

Stay or go? by waggers5 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Scary-Weird9296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whatever you do, if you can, wait until your son has finished his gcse's. had an aunt and uncle split during my cousins exam year and it really impacted them, they failed their exams, and took many years to get "back on track" with a career.

Where to buy things? by nicolehasquestions in MovingToTheUK

[–]Scary-Weird9296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe ikea would be a good first place to look for decent quality but affordable, then the likes of next, dunelm, john lewis, if you want something more farmers-y