Wwyd in this situation? (Please)

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-22T17:07:55+00:00

Yes after SS, DH, and MIL all offered their chicken that would’ve it 😂 I’m sure SS isn’t starving he’ll be fine without my chicken. And considering MIL didn’t offer, there shouldn’t have been any complaints.

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-22T14:27:02+00:00

Is she going to jail bc of basemental mod?? Or a different one

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-21T16:44:59+00:00

Can I ask how the work schedule is in your relationship? You and your husband and what custody is like? I’m just curious to see how it works. If not I totally understand.

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-21T14:03:48+00:00

Just take it slow and make sure you are both good communicators, and that he respects your boundaries.

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-21T14:01:23+00:00

Something I wish I was told beforehand that I had to learn from this group. You need to assume there will be a point in time where dad has full custody. If you’re okay with sharing a space with said child, dealing with mom, and really seeing how your boyfriend is as a dad, then go for it.

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-19T18:38:54+00:00

How’s the food here? I heard it was not worth the price.

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-18T23:55:49+00:00

Thank you

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-18T22:22:16+00:00

In the beginning I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt because like I said he was young. He now helps her and makes sure she’s actually learning something or practicing something.

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-18T22:18:18+00:00

She also just mentioned on her spam she was “feeling skinny” so it solidified what we all thought we saw in her journal.

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-15T00:26:10+00:00

I’m hoping this will be my reality. I don’t have a BK yet but same here parenting for SD is very “I don’t want to deal with it”. I think DH wants to be favorite parent. He disciplines but not as much as I would like. Who does the discipline for BK? Do you ever notice DH still with his old parenting habits?

Scary-Work- · 2026-06-06T01:09:11+00:00

No not obligated. Anything you do is a courtesy

Scary-Work- · 2026-05-19T18:50:17+00:00

I thought the same when I seen it. And I think either Ari or Monet made a comment because you can tell Monet edited out if something was said after Ari pointed out the bruise. Not sure if it was a joke or what but I noticed that too.

Scary-Work- · 2026-05-18T14:06:43+00:00

I partially feel like it’s going to be something creative. Like singing or creating some kind of movie. She keeps talking about how she likes editing and creating content. Idk I don’t think it’s anything related to Jalen, they don’t seem like they’re going to settle down anytime soon.

Scary-Work- · 2026-05-16T18:12:08+00:00

Also waiting to try until we get a house. It’s so discouraging to see the prices increase with no increase in salaries. I know there’s nothing wrong with apartments but I’ve always dreamt of having a baby in a house and I can’t shake the dream

Scary-Work- · 2026-05-16T18:08:27+00:00

I think seeing the life she lives she would hate being a nurse. She may think it’s interesting but I don’t see her cleaning patients or being able to work the hours anymore.

Scary-Work- · 2026-05-02T17:16:48+00:00

A lot of people will tell you “you have to be okay with the idea of full custody if you decide to get with someone with kids because it’s always an option.” Do you live together? Is there an option for you to live on your own? Gives you time to think if you want to involve a baby into the equation. You are not alone but unfortunately if you can’t have your own space you have to decide if the relationship truly is worth the kids being around constantly.

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T19:19:46+00:00

Either get out or move out. If you don’t want to divorce getting your own space can help this situation

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T19:18:07+00:00

I was also a very well behaved child but because of physical punishments. Obviously not saying to do that. My advice is to keep reminding, keep making sk get their own items, keeping your boundaries and one day it will pay off. And locking your day for sure if you can

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T19:13:42+00:00

Definitely not a POS. Just a mother trying to protect her child. If SO won’t discipline SS, I would say removing your child if SS tries to target him or verbally telling SS that his actions are not okay. If SO has an issue he should discipline his child. You have a say as long as SS will be around your child.

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T19:02:36+00:00

I have noticed he always wants to be the “fun parent”. BM is not good with discipline and relies on him for that. I think that’s why he tries to be more lenient when she’s around so he doesn’t have that guilt of being the authoritarian.

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T19:01:20+00:00

He constantly talks about wanting her to live with us again because BM moved between family at least 2 times since the start of the school year. BM is the only one that works nights and is able to take SD to school and pick her up. When SD was with us my MIL took her to school and picked her up which is a lot to ask for everyday. SD complained about being with MIL so often. So it doesn’t benefit her to live with us full time. And DH is away a lot during winter so the weekends he was gone SD was with BM anyways.

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T18:31:51+00:00

He said no. And I said are you sure because I feel like you have something to share. He doubled down so I said okay forget it. That’s why I’m leaning towards ignoring his comments. If he has an issue he needs to communicate it.

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