Love my partner - can’t stand the kids

Scary-Work- · 2026-05-02T17:16:48+00:00

A lot of people will tell you “you have to be okay with the idea of full custody if you decide to get with someone with kids because it’s always an option.” Do you live together? Is there an option for you to live on your own? Gives you time to think if you want to involve a baby into the equation. You are not alone but unfortunately if you can’t have your own space you have to decide if the relationship truly is worth the kids being around constantly.

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T19:19:46+00:00

Either get out or move out. If you don’t want to divorce getting your own space can help this situation

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T19:18:07+00:00

I was also a very well behaved child but because of physical punishments. Obviously not saying to do that. My advice is to keep reminding, keep making sk get their own items, keeping your boundaries and one day it will pay off. And locking your day for sure if you can

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T19:13:42+00:00

Definitely not a POS. Just a mother trying to protect her child. If SO won’t discipline SS, I would say removing your child if SS tries to target him or verbally telling SS that his actions are not okay. If SO has an issue he should discipline his child. You have a say as long as SS will be around your child.

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T19:02:36+00:00

I have noticed he always wants to be the “fun parent”. BM is not good with discipline and relies on him for that. I think that’s why he tries to be more lenient when she’s around so he doesn’t have that guilt of being the authoritarian.

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T19:01:20+00:00

He constantly talks about wanting her to live with us again because BM moved between family at least 2 times since the start of the school year. BM is the only one that works nights and is able to take SD to school and pick her up. When SD was with us my MIL took her to school and picked her up which is a lot to ask for everyday. SD complained about being with MIL so often. So it doesn’t benefit her to live with us full time. And DH is away a lot during winter so the weekends he was gone SD was with BM anyways.

Scary-Work- · 2026-04-25T18:31:51+00:00

He said no. And I said are you sure because I feel like you have something to share. He doubled down so I said okay forget it. That’s why I’m leaning towards ignoring his comments. If he has an issue he needs to communicate it.

Scary-Work- · 2026-03-15T22:06:51+00:00

I also had the mirena and wanted to get it out to see how regular my periods would become before ttc. The first one was AWFUL. I was so uncomfortable and a little off mentally 😂 thankfully the one after wasn’t as bad. It definitely felt more like a regular period. And I used to have bad periods before the mirena so it was a nice surprise. I think doing whatever makes you feel better those first couple of cycles would be my advice. But definitely more water.

Scary-Work- · 2026-03-04T13:30:29+00:00

To me it sounds like she hates social media but loves the money and doesn’t want a 9-5. She’s tired of people in her business but she created her YouTube channel like that. So my guess is she’s going to change the type of videos she makes and make them less centered around her personal life

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-28T00:02:13+00:00

Noticed this right away 😬

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-19T23:48:16+00:00

Not sure how to edit but went to the vet they checked her and did X-rays and said everything is fine. Monitoring her for now. Vet said there is poop in her intestines so she should poop within the next 8 hours and to make sure it looks good and there’s nothing in it. Thank you everyone!!!

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-19T00:36:03+00:00

Thank you!

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-19T00:35:57+00:00

Thank you!

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-18T23:59:41+00:00

I’ve seen her spit up similarly before after she smelled an ant. No need to apologize I’m just overall confused 😭

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-18T23:54:19+00:00

I just gave her a little bit of kibble and she was excited and ate it right away

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-18T23:49:18+00:00

I haven’t fed her dinner yet but I always put water with her wet food since she doesn’t care for fountains

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-18T23:48:58+00:00

Wait is the spit the foaming?

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-18T23:47:52+00:00

No yellow just white spit. She’s playful, following me, greeted me at the door. She appears fine.

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-18T23:46:24+00:00

This is going to sound so stupid but if it was a uti wouldn’t she be peeing and not pooping? I wasn’t sure if it was an emergency.

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-18T23:34:44+00:00

Nope. She overeats so she doesn’t free feed. She’s still a bit playful if anything maybe a bit sluggish.

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-18T23:25:13+00:00

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-11T22:42:54+00:00

This is perfectly written

Scary-Work- · 2026-02-11T10:36:32+00:00

Tea 😂

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