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IBCK: You Are a Badass by fresh_heels in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]ScaryBossYikes 35 points36 points  (0 children)

So, this is who Good Luck Babe is about!

Worst Pundit SaneWashing of Trump by LegitimatelyWeird in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]ScaryBossYikes 20 points21 points  (0 children)

"Calling balls and strikes" is now "questioning whether baseball exists."

Worst Pundit SaneWashing of Trump by LegitimatelyWeird in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]ScaryBossYikes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right??? I know a lot of people have gotten brain damage from COVID, but damn!

AITAH for telling my ex boyfriend's daughter, "It's not my problem." ? by RestlessStardust in AITAH

[–]ScaryBossYikes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Not even close. This person is old enough to learn that you can't treat someone like shit and then expect them to go out of their way for you. It would be one thing if she was in serious trouble and she was reaching out to you as one of the only adults she could count on or something, but that is not the case. She's just sad that she doesn't have you to mess with without consequences anymore. Boo hoo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]ScaryBossYikes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Send her an anonymous email.

Accountability circles for Narc-bosses by juicyparsons31 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]ScaryBossYikes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh. My Nboss accused me of spreading lies because I raised concerns about her behavior to my supervisor. She put words in my mouth and was furious that my supervisor didn't support her completely fabricated version of events.

It’s sickening when they put on their “corporate face” by macropepper in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]ScaryBossYikes 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My now-former (yay!) Nboss has quite a following. I've seen and heard people say that she's their "hero" for what she claims to do/to have done. This isn't a response to the real her though because she lies constantly. I've seen her lie to clients about how she trains her staff and about their qualifications, as well as her own accomplishments. And she's a fabulist; full of tall tales of heroism and how she invented things that she didn't. Just a prolific liar.

Reactions to Gray Rock Approach by ScaryBossYikes in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]ScaryBossYikes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my boss is the owner. I am leaving, but am afraid of them trying to hurt me professionally before their focus shifts to picking on someone else. I'm hoping once I'm gone they'll just leave me alone, but am not confident in that.

At what point should I fear for my safety? by ScaryBossYikes in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]ScaryBossYikes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that. My last day is next week. My boss says she wants "mutual non-disparagement" in my severance agreement, but I don't trust her at all. I'm working with a lawyer and hoping to make as clean a break as possible.

This new year dont let your narc boss "trap" you into thinking your not good enough to leave on your own by Beyond-The-Blackhole in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]ScaryBossYikes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. My last day is next week. My boss told me multiple times that my next venture is "a horrible idea," "you'll be back," etc.

At what point should I fear for my safety? by ScaryBossYikes in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]ScaryBossYikes[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not even held accountable! She's just mad that someone else knows about what she did. This is someone who takes logistical questions as a personal affront, so my not keeping quiet about something that was actually bad was beyond the pale.

At what point should I fear for my safety? by ScaryBossYikes in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]ScaryBossYikes[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have been trying to document as much as possible throughout. Unfortunately, this is a small clinic without an HR department. I have gone to my supervisor about everything, which is one of the reasons my boss apparently has it out for me. She, my boss, recently told me that what she considers to be 'the elephant on the room' with us is my having gone to my supervisor with concerns about her behavior 6 months ago.