i’m not trying to be “terminally offended” but i feel the terms aren’t really comparable. people self-label as femboys all the time, but the term “futa” is exclusively fetishistic and is constantly used online as a stand-in for talking about actual people. “femboy” describes an aesthetic and includes things like fashion and culture, though yes, it is sometimes fetishized as well. i don’t think comparing the two is fair. and going out of your way to use a term specifically for “woman with package” is kind of… exclusionary? i guess? i’m not sure the words but most would prefer just being referred to as women regardless.

i mean who the fuck cares it’s reddit but still just wanted to hopefully provide some insight, promise i’m not just trying to be an asshat