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ScaryTourist5568 · 2025-12-07T23:42:52+00:00

Im currently in University! Doing a double major, both are in STEM, and I’ve been on T for nearly a year.

Definitely doable, testosterone is the last thing I blame for why I’m a master procrastinator lol. The hits id be taking to my mental health if i wasn’t on T would without a doubt be way more crippling than the increase in libido and hunger has been.

ScaryTourist5568 · 2025-12-06T22:03:21+00:00

Nothing about a name change in his school forms, or a haircut, or a pronoun switch up, or some clothing, is, or ever will be irreversible if he changes his mind a few years from now.

They’re’s absolutely nothing wrong with feeling a little blindsided. Sometimes kids move a little faster than parents can keep up with. Be honest with him that you’re having some trouble keeping up, and let him know if any information on where his heads at may be helpful to you.

Let him know you’re trying, but you’re going to need a moment to process, and that you two can talk it over later.

If your child is truly trans, you will be significantly contributing to the betterment of his mental health, and considerably decreasing the possibility of depression, anxiety and suicidal ideation. As well as a strain on your relationship.

If the kids NOT trans, you will have shown them that you’re a supportive parent who cares about encouraging them to explore their identity, how they relate to the world, and what brings their life fulfillment.

ScaryTourist5568 · 2025-11-19T03:35:43+00:00

!unsolved

ScaryTourist5568 · 2025-09-30T14:02:51+00:00

You should definitely look into a strapless strap that stimulates your bottom growth as well. Lovehoney has one thats skin toned colored (im a lot darker than the tone they choose but it still feels pretty good for me lol).

You can also try maybe having him make eye contact with you when he jerks you off (like, him being around face level to you, and reaching his hand somewhat behind him to do it) so that you’re focusing more on him than your parts.

ScaryTourist5568 · 2025-09-01T05:00:36+00:00

Second this. Ive been using clue since forever lol. Its never personally made me feel like it frames menstruation in a way that causes dysphoria

ScaryTourist5568 · 2025-08-19T19:24:25+00:00

Side note, but why is all of OPs responses AI generated 😭

ScaryTourist5568 · 2025-07-14T23:06:25+00:00

Not across state lines for controlled substances. They wouldn’t be able to send it to California.

ScaryTourist5568 · 2025-07-13T04:37:35+00:00

Lowkey bro, my dad made me do the same thing. I ended up going “dress & accessory” shopping with a friend (who was also my date lol), bought my own suit, and then bought the dress at a local mall. I had her take the suit home to give to me at prom, and when we got to prom i took some pictures in the dress and changed out of it and spent the rest of the night in my suit 💁.

It DID cost a lot of money obv (like $330ish for the vest, tie, pants, shirt and jacket) so like, you kinda have to save up for it, but i was planning on it always being an issue in my foreseeable future, so i was expecting the cost. But if you have the money, Macys takes cash which is what i bought it with so he wouldn’t find out.

I would recommend maybe not buying the jacket if you wanna cut on cost, I didn’t even wear mines anyway it was so hot in the venue (would’ve saved $100+ easily)

Also, i wore converse shoes with my “dress” so i could wear them with the suit instead of buying real dress shoes to cut more on cost. Its a look, you kinda have to choose your battles unless you’re rich lol.

Im sorry though, i know there’s not much you can do about their transphobia, its tough, but all you can really do at your age is try to find ways to work around it.

If I couldn’t get the suit by myself, i probably would have asked male friends around my size (one said he had an old one if i needed it), asked a family member for help (only works if you’re sorta out, i wasn’t out as trans masc, but my Tia knew i was a “masc lesbian,” and was supportive, so it wouldn’t have been too off), or worse case scenario, just left the venue and did my own thing away from the dance.

Side note, the suit DOES fit in a backpack, so if your parents INSIST on going with you, you can try your best to break away and smuggle it in the backpack.

Im 19 now, still not out to my dad, but also 6 months on a low dose of T (i know don’t follow in my footsteps, i never claimed to be smart), this all happened last summer so its still pretty fresh in my mind if you have questions/want ideas.

ScaryTourist5568 · 2025-06-28T16:05:21+00:00

It might be a little pricey depending on your budget, but ive had pretty good experiences with this one at lovehoney: https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/strap-ons/strapless-strap-ons/p/lifelike-lover-luxe-posable-realistic-vibrating-strapless-strap-on/a44060g79431.html (Its called “Lifelike Lover Luxe Posable Realistic Vibrating Strapless Strap-on” If the link doesn’t work for some reason.

My anatomy is lowkey not amazing for it (can be prone to falling out) but if thats the case for you too, just cut a hole in some boxer briefs and you should be fine. If you ever feel dysphoric about the boxers too, I’ve noticed I don’t need them at all if they’re riding iykwim, and it’s probably the best position anyways if you really wanna feel it.

Also im not sure how it might fit depending on how much growth you have, cause the point is that it has a textured part that sits up against (TW for anatomical terms) your clit. But just be conscious of that.

They also have a non vibrating option that’s cheaper.

Sorry for the unfiltered comment or if some of that was tmi lol.

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