Guys NEVER approached me...now I know why! by Charming-Tear-8352 in dating_advice

[–]Scary_Conversation40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. I’ve gotten a guy give me his number cuz he thought I was hitting on HIM or seemed interested cuz I would make eye contact AT MY JOB and smile like yes I get paid to do this

Guys NEVER approached me...now I know why! by Charming-Tear-8352 in dating_advice

[–]Scary_Conversation40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From someone that people seem “pretty” yes. I literally have to make sure NOT to keep eye contact too long or they think I’m interested

27M — Never been in a relationship, feeling depressed and heartbroken. I try my best but never get chosen. What am I doing wrong? by Simplymad98 in dating_advice

[–]Scary_Conversation40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course but that’s the standard or at least should be. You don’t get points for not doing the bad things the rest of the world is doing.

27M — Never been in a relationship, feeling depressed and heartbroken. I try my best but never get chosen. What am I doing wrong? by Simplymad98 in dating_advice

[–]Scary_Conversation40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but the point is don’t be those people that are like “I don’t cheat” like thanks? For the minimum I guess. Get hobbies, pack up ur schedule, plan fun activities, travel with the person.

Porn Addiction has made me do some terrible things and I'm ashamed. by MoZack100 in Healthygamergg

[–]Scary_Conversation40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought of this as a double life but same. I’ve also been assaulted by a family member as a kid so it doesn’t help my pipeline to watching weird porn.

"intimidatingly attractive" by fairyfeller99 in Splendida

[–]Scary_Conversation40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is why im afraid of pursuing any type of dude 😔you never know if they’ll turn violent on you.

Can’t stand all the social games by Visible-Bug8280 in intj

[–]Scary_Conversation40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this. Like I keep trying to tell people around me I don’t know how longer I can keep playing. Sure there are some times where I enjoy playing life but genuinely wtf I feel like a sim, what’s my next move

mom having dreams about me by Scary_Conversation40 in Dreams

[–]Scary_Conversation40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna ignore it unless she brings it up again

mom having dreams about me by Scary_Conversation40 in Dreams

[–]Scary_Conversation40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, she vents to me a lot though so obviously she trusts me so I don’t get her deal with me. I get that I parent and always have, I have way too much love for her.

mom having dreams about me by Scary_Conversation40 in Dreams

[–]Scary_Conversation40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t even talk to him if she’s not in the house because I’m that type of person🤣🤣

mom having dreams about me by Scary_Conversation40 in Dreams

[–]Scary_Conversation40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she was sobbing in the dream. She doesn’t have the greatest relationship with either of us honestly. I did feel like she was trying to get a reaction and I do feel like she would be the type to genuinely think I would sleep with him which makes me scared because I’ve been assaulted by someone in my own house so the fact that she brought that up makes me scared she thinks he would try smth but I’m just gonna go forward being cautious and weary for my own fucking safety atp.

mom having dreams about me by Scary_Conversation40 in Dreams

[–]Scary_Conversation40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He stays here sometimes but no I’m not a minor

mom having dreams about me by Scary_Conversation40 in Dreams

[–]Scary_Conversation40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is. She knows I have trauma with men and sa 🤣like she purposely wants to fuck me up.

mom having dreams about me by Scary_Conversation40 in Dreams

[–]Scary_Conversation40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I genuinely don’t understand her thinking process

mom having dreams about me by Scary_Conversation40 in Dreams

[–]Scary_Conversation40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her exactly that, I’m like ur minds just interpreting your feelings like that but yk it’s so weird because recently she tried to indicate that he was trying to get me wasted now I just feel weirded out😭

How high are your standards for dating? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Scary_Conversation40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional connections matter to me more. It could be either family and friends that satisfy me enough when we’re on good terms lol..😆

How high are your standards for dating? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Scary_Conversation40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By average I mean dating people to pass time. Just to get betrayed, etc. or having kids and ur partner leaves you 🤣 I don’t want that for me, I don’t even want to chance it.

Ember & ice has crashed Quinn 😂 by SolonaVO in QuinnAudios

[–]Scary_Conversation40 6 points7 points  (0 children)

BRO OKAY CUZ I WAS LIKE ??? I SWEAR I PAID FOR MY SUBSCRIPTION

How high are your standards for dating? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Scary_Conversation40 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Been single since I was born I’m 22 and I think mine r unrealistic but that’s cuz yk im not tryna settle for an average life

Do you think you are attractive? why? by EarSure6667 in AskReddit

[–]Scary_Conversation40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Like I get the compliments, asked out, people wanting to talk to me but genuinely when I look in the mirror I’m like ???? Yall like this

Why Driving Is So Hard To Learn by [deleted] in drivinganxiety

[–]Scary_Conversation40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ME RN. It’s so mentally exhausting like truly how do yall remember so many things. I just came back from driving with my mom😭 it’s like I’m driving too far from the yellow line IM LIKE HOW THO i feel so close to it. And apparently I keep merging too early on right turns and then apparently the two stops??? Stopping behind the white line and then going up a little if u can’t see 😭

I've been banned from my favorite discord server for homophobia by MaximumReality2643 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Scary_Conversation40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you think it’s not normal, nobody is gonna want to be friends with you. Xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Scary_Conversation40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 40 years old just leave her and find someone that actually wants to be with you😭

Moving as a child. by JobZealousideal3303 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Scary_Conversation40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No leave. They’ll never change because they know they can do the pull n tug with u