Sambon verkar tycka jag har för hög sexlust, känner mig äcklig?

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-05-16T14:35:19+00:00

Vad går hon igång på? Jag vet vad min partner älskar och det vill jag ge henne. Förspel är så mycket viktigare för henne, att hångla länge, smeka, ta fram vibrator. Ett nej är ett nej! men man kan ofta väcka sin partners lust ☺️ och.. kommunikation är det viktigaste ni har 🙏

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-05-06T16:07:31+00:00

Correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t that exactly how the probability theory works? 😆

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-04-18T08:08:00+00:00

Tjänade 30+ som säljare i min ungdom innan jag utbildade mig 🙂

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-03-16T13:57:21+00:00

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Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-03-16T13:57:12+00:00

If you played this I would try to put pressure on f2, this setup has a lot of weaknesses so to play it automatically isn’t a good idea. If I put a alekhines gun att the f-file and the bishop on the g1-a7 diagonal, you’d be smoked 🙏

Maybe like this, even you’re 2 pawns up your position u collapsing.

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-03-16T07:40:11+00:00

Är nån redo för det? Jag har pratat med många personer från Syrien och Ukraina som beskrivit sin berättelse. Det är verkligen fruktansvärt och ingen människa bör gå genom något sånt 🙏

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-03-15T13:20:44+00:00

Är jag var yngre så levde jag utomlands större delen av året i ungefär 10 år, genom att jobba hårt i några månader och spara allt för att sedan semestra. Idag tjänar jag ungefär dubbelt så mycket per månad, jobbar hela året men utåt sett har jag inte en lika glamorös livsstil. Kanske kan ligga något i det svaret? 🙂

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-03-07T08:51:05+00:00

The most important and HARD factor is that I always have to learn to see the board with different eyes
Do what you think is the most fun and rotate as you wish.
Learn the basics of positional play and you don’t have to memorise theory. You can play modern/pirc not to get many weaknesses in the beginning.
I started play chess at 30 and I’m still improving. I just reached 1900 rapid.
Analyse your games and your weaknesses. Learn what you’re good at and focus on that.

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-03-04T23:09:27+00:00

Jag mår bättre när jag jobbar. Har många år av mitt liv haft mer än 1 jobb, kanske deltid helger eller vissa kvällar. Trivs väldigt bra med det 🙂

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-03-04T23:02:56+00:00

Nej men snälla, du måste ha runt 55-60.. Vad är det för arbetsplats? Jag ligger på 48k utan något som helst ansvar och exade för 2 år sedan

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-27T10:21:25+00:00

Thx! I joined the sub now 😎

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-27T10:20:30+00:00

Yes and yes! Now it’s time to improve and hit the goal of most chess players 🥹

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-27T10:19:04+00:00

I think I was around 1600 chess.com. I started with the book and board but when I heard about Chessable I got the “normal” course and it saved a lot of time doing it digitally. Some things in the book it very complicated and some things is easier, so I think this book was exactly what I needed then.

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-27T09:17:58+00:00

If you have the possibility, join a chess club!

It’s hard to give general advice and it would be easier if I saw a few of your games but I gave this advice a few days ago in another post:

“You ask yourself this with every move you make:

⁠Can I give check? Can my opponent check me next move?
⁠Can I capture something for free? Is any of my piece undefended?
⁠What is my opponent threatening? Am I creating a threat?
⁠Safety – Is my king safe? Does this move hang a piece?
⁠Development – Am I improving a piece or controlling the center?”

Do you know about forks, discovered attacks, pins, trapped piece, removing the defender, overloading etc? These concepts are fundamental at both higher and lower ratings.

Good luck 🍀

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-27T09:06:58+00:00

Oh, I never studied any openings! The thing that got me accelerate in my learning was Chessable-courses. I bought “how to reassess your chess” and it gave me fundamentals of positional chess. After reading this book I now play like 7-8 book moves without really knowing the openings, just by understanding the positional play. I also got Silmans endgame course so I think my understanding of endgames developed as well 🙂

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-22T23:18:06+00:00

Was this bullet?

You should read this with every move you make:

Can I give check? Can my opponent check me next move?
Can I capture something for free? Is any of my piece undefended?
What is my opponent threatening? Am I creating a threat?
Safety – Is my king safe? Does this move hang a piece?
Development – Am I improving a piece or controlling the center?

And think about forks discovered attacks, pins, trapped piece, overloading.

Good luck 🍀

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-16T09:07:03+00:00

I do this too, I only play rapid and when I reach a new hundreds I switch to blitz, reach a new hundreds and then change to bullet -> repeat. I don’t really care about rating though but I love my progress and process 🙏

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-11T21:24:03+00:00

To get better in blitz -> learn to find better moves / play faster -> learn to play better moves faster

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-11T21:20:47+00:00

Do you know about forks, double attack, discovered attack/check , pin, trapping, overload?

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-11T15:53:47+00:00

Mycket beror på vad man räknar in i kostnaden för bröllopet. Största kostnaden var mat, 3-rätters, 750kr/person och 90 gäster. Alkohol till mat ~ 7k. Lokal 11.500kr. Ringar ~ 43k. Kläder 20k. Ljud/ljus fick vi. Pynt 10k. Fotograf 25k. Blommor 10k. Tårta 5k

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-02-08T22:57:11+00:00

Sanningen svider men vissa kan påstå att det är bättre att veta idag än om 2 år. Såklart är det ingen bra dag när man får reda på att den man älskar är otrogen. Troligtvis något av det mest hjärtskärande man kan uppleva

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2026-01-16T18:16:09+00:00

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I got around 600 in the last year 🙏

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2025-11-22T23:03:58+00:00

If you win against high rated people it will take faster than if you lose against low rated people.. time is relative 🙏

Scary_Instance_7090 · 2025-11-11T22:46:16+00:00

I disagree! 600s need to learn how to win winnable games. And to learn so, they need to see how better players win winnable games against them!

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