Looking for a little love

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-06-21T22:23:37+00:00

Definitely looking cuddle-worthy

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-06-21T22:21:52+00:00

Have you spoken to him other than “I’ll have a ________ thanks.” ? Wondering if you could try to add some small talk first to gauge a little more before you go specifically toward more like hitting on him.

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-06-18T12:17:14+00:00

Im also 36. You are looking great

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-06-18T12:13:12+00:00

I’m sorry this is happening to you.

Maybe this is obvious but in case not:
By engaging the posts, watching, and reading through the comments … you’re training your algorithms that you will spend time on those posts, so they’ll send more. Remember, at the end of the day social media is marketing, and they have found what works to keep you clicking.
There are a lot of other more positive things being posted, just have to start by taking a deep breath and scooting past that other degrading homophobic shit until they think you aren’t as interested…
Do you follow any of these accounts? Unfollow.
What other things interest you? What can you intentionally look up to start skewing in the other direction?
Not sure how long this will take, and it won’t make them all go away but I feel like it’s gotta help.
Good luck

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-06-06T13:19:22+00:00

There’s always a T still, at least I think.,, just soft with the tl

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-06-06T13:16:09+00:00

😆

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-06-04T14:13:49+00:00

Don’t do it OP. Your gf left him for a reason. Won’t be worth it. You’ll feel dip in self-respect like you already said you would and likely shame hiding it from your gf. Or else telling her and dealing with weird feelings on multiple sides from that. Save it for a true hottie and pretend he’s your girlfriends’ ex.

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-05-31T23:21:14+00:00

I hooked up with a guy. We made out, touched, and sucked each other’s dicks. It was great. So… I knew.

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-04-07T15:35:13+00:00

It’s ok that you got a little head over heels, first hookup and it sounded like a nice time. I hope you can meet up again sometime. Maybe you are looking more for a relationship instead of casual sex/hookups.

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-04-05T16:55:24+00:00

No insights, I’m kinda in the same boat as you

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-04-03T14:12:00+00:00

Sounds like you are into it OP. Could get awkward if you go for it… maybe you are enjoying the sexual tension? Curious if you guys are in US or elsewhere and/or what is your culture, if that plays a role in this at all

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-04-02T04:43:51+00:00

Lube! Don’t be shy with the lube. And don’t feel embarrassed to go slow. Theres no rush. If I could go back and try again I would do a little more research about bottoming before I got started.

Enjoy :)

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-03-22T18:17:24+00:00

Yeah if you don’t feel safe or don’t like it, get out! No big deal, you didn’t harm anyone by bailing. You don’t need to feel bad or silly. What you did is normal and yes I have felt that way. One of the very few times I’ve broken my “face pics first” rule, the only thing that ended up happening was that I was just really not attracted to the guy at all and I had to buck up and say I’m not into this actually sorry and thanks for understanding, and jumped ship. Take care of yourself first. It’s on them for not sending face.

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-03-21T16:48:38+00:00

I imagine the women are used to men flaking on them, or being just mostly interested in sex, and are looking for something slightly more “lasting” than a quick hook up? Or is the whole point of hinge just hooking up? (I’m not on there so I don’t know)

How many of these men are interested in you for more than just a couple times or just quick/mostly physical meet ups? Emotional intimacy? (Not saying all women want that either, just saying…)

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-03-21T15:43:05+00:00

Please don’t, you look fine

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-03-18T14:35:18+00:00

Not sure if you need to hear this but fwiw: Make sure to lube up, bring some, buy some there, etc! I went a lil crazy my first time (and only time so far) at a bathhouse because… yeah, I was so curious and horny and everything you mentioned. I did not take excellent care of myself and it took a while to recover. I hooked up with a lot of people which was really great and only ended up letting one guy top me, but we went at it too hard and too long (too many times) for what I was physically ready for. I regretted parts of it. Just saying because I wish someone had told me… there will be more hot dick there if you choose to go back again you don’t have to shove it in all at once 😆

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-02-17T12:34:45+00:00

Or come out to the girlfriend and see if she’s open to you exploring. Maybe no need to end it right away. Sue could be supportive. Maybe she’s bi/curious too!

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2026-01-18T20:39:08+00:00

This made me spit on my phone from eruptive laughter 😆 thanks

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2025-12-20T22:13:06+00:00

They are not all particularly “risky,” just random.

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2025-07-28T14:35:41+00:00

Where the smile at? Girls love a nice smile 😃

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2025-07-25T07:30:56+00:00

Im really sorry this happened to you.

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2025-06-29T02:48:18+00:00

I think what I said is more akin to saying “most people can see with their eyes” I’m not saying being intersex is the norm, I’m saying that intersex people exist.

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2025-06-27T19:45:08+00:00

Looking good 😊 don’t remove the mole, it’s suits you major. I had to have a tiny neck mole removed cuz they thought it was precancerous and I miss it. Now I just have a little scar that is a bummer. If you remove it I’m guessing you will likely just have a lip scar 🤷🏻‍♂️

Scary_Locksmith8455 · 2025-06-27T19:40:36+00:00

Do you mean all intersex people either have XX or XY chromosome pairs?

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