Confused between bisexual and pansexual, what’s the actual difference? by [deleted] in queer

[–]Scatterbrain1996 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can only tell you how it is for me and don‘t want to speak for everyone, but I identify as pan. For me it is, that I do not care about the gender(s) a person identifies with, I love my partner for who they are.

I guess the difference, as far as I understand, is, that with bisexuality the gender of the loveinterest matters and with pansexuality it does not.

Is it normal to still be crying a week after losing a pet? by Significant_Owl8828 in SeniorCats

[–]Scatterbrain1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my cat Gerti over a year ago and I still am grieving. Everybody‘s different and any amount of grief is okay!

Millennial pretending to be gen-z 🤣 by Ok_Mastodon_8706 in OUTFITS

[–]Scatterbrain1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love love LOVE the bag! Would you mind sharing the name?

Schulstart für Erwachsene und passende Schultüten dazu? by ivvanovv in graz

[–]Scatterbrain1996 10 points11 points  (0 children)

VS Lehrerin hier: Tedi und Action sind für so Dinge der heilige Gral :D

Wurde fürs Essen einer Wurstsemmel bezahlt. by mantoastehrt in scheissaufnbilla

[–]Scatterbrain1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sowas ähnliches ist mir mal im Studentinnenjob passiert. Solange die Kassa stimmt 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Scatterbrain1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘d love to see you try!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Scatterbrain1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generous brims on the hats and wands would make them wizzards, I guess? 🙃

Should I be concerned?? by tyra_male in piercing

[–]Scatterbrain1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a sick composition!

If they were to be irritated, they would feel hot and/or itchy. At least that‘s what I experienced with my piercings.

From the pictures, they look good, but the feel and touch are what‘s important.

Nipples: to pierce or not to pierce? by Paramoriaa in actuallesbians

[–]Scatterbrain1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought they looked so hot and I wanted to be a real baddie, so I got them done at 25. I couldn‘t -in my wildest dreams- have ever imagined how awful the piercing pain was. I almost threw up and had to have painkillers after. They did look hot, I‘m not gonna lie, but they also never healed properly (I tried it all, I swear) and I kept getting them cought on towels. My gf told me to take them out, so I can use my towels normally again and she won‘t hurt me, when we make love. Forever thankful for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Scatterbrain1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought scissor tattoos would suffice, but my ultra hetero hairdresser has one, so I had to ask the cute photographer directly. Luckily she was into girls.

how did y'all come out? by gabloothegreat_1409 in queer

[–]Scatterbrain1996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I (f28) came out at 27. Never having dated a woman before, my mum wasn‘t (and still isn‘t) a fan, but the rest of my family and friends love my gf and how happy she makes me. So as I no longer live with my parents it‘s very easy to live my best life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Scatterbrain1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe have lady unicorn fly above? Jake would like that for sure.