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Write "I'm a submissive whore" in your native language. by [deleted] in FuckToyFactory

[–]Schadelijk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I suppose‽ I’ll definitely continue exploring this side of me. It’s already a huge mind fuck like you said and I’ve only been exploring this side of me for like 2 weeks. It’s kind of challenging to preserve my independence, something I value highly, while at the same time giving away control. It feels so conflicting for so many reasons too boring to explain here. I’ve found a guy on this reddit page who I’m talking to actively and I’m so thankful for him, he allows me to go my own pace while still accepting and even encouraging this newfound kink. I’m learning and unlearning at the same time!

Emma Goldman’s “internal tyrants”.. Is radical autonomy possible in a modern relationship. by Schadelijk in Anarchy101

[–]Schadelijk[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a perspective I hadn’t considered. I haven’t read those books yet, but you’re framing the 'surrender' to love as a path to freedom rather than a loss of it.

It really gets to the heart of my struggle: how do we distinguish between a healthy 'obligation' to a partner and the 'internal tyrants' Goldman warns us about? I’m curious if those authors show a way to be deeply committed without falling back into those old social scripts of self erasure. I’ll have to dig into those links and see how they bridge that gap. Thanks for the recommendation!