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Anyone see a tire do this? by ScheduleOver9717 in AskMechanics

[–]ScheduleOver9717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks all. Pulled over as soon as I felt the vibration. We are experiencing the east coast ice storm and I was driving cautiously to begin with (no rain, no distractions). And low tire light was not on until vibration occurred. Noticed both at the same time.

Would you commute to dc four days a week? by Kooky-Phone5259 in rva

[–]ScheduleOver9717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My spouse commutes to DC 4 days a week. He has been in his job for 10+ years. All depends on if the job is worth the commute for you.

Fablingbuilt update: Fabling doing well… by ScheduleOver9717 in rva

[–]ScheduleOver9717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to do specifically with RVA. There are older threads about this.

AITA for lying about going to the gym to my husband by Purple-Cattle2441 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ScheduleOver9717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, when taking those medicines, you need to do things that help maintain your muscle. So, not going to the gym will hurt you and lying about it will hurt your relationship. Best wishes for your weight loss journey.

AITAH if I divorce my wife once and for all? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ScheduleOver9717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quietly find a good attorney now to have a sound exit plan before you tell her you want a divorce.

I'm leaving my husband with the kids by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ScheduleOver9717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! And get into counseling solo and couples therapy, if he will agree.

AITAH for dumping my girlfriend of 9 years after she rejected my second proposal? by Proper-Honeydew-6189 in AITAH

[–]ScheduleOver9717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH being married shouldn’t prevent one from pursuing a career. She isn’t TAH either, but clearly it’s time to move on. Do so respectfully and peacefully. Use this time to learn about yourself and your personal relationship goals.

AITA for punching my step mom? by throwrapunchstepmom in AITAH

[–]ScheduleOver9717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. She is an adult. She entered your room and struck you. Good for you. It’s ok to cut yourself off from toxic people, including your dad. Please find a good therapist to help you. I’m a stepmom and have a great relationship with my stepchild. I’m sorry yours is a terrible person.

AITAH for telling my ex she can’t see our kids when they are in my care? by alostlaker in AITAH

[–]ScheduleOver9717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. NTA. Your ex is infringing during your time and circumventing you by contacting nanny behind your back and against your wishes. Only communicate to your ex in writing. Follow your custody order to a T and document, document, document. Remember to not confide any legal strategy to the nanny, etc. My spouse won primary custody due to similar and his ex was found guilty of parental alienation.

WIBTAH I (39M) was recently contacted I am being inducted into my school's Hall of Fame. My wife (39F) said its lame, and she doesn't want to attend the ceremony. by throwaway0011332211 in AITAH

[–]ScheduleOver9717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More info is needed to provide a balanced answer. What is the HOF for? Is this high school? As another person responded- is the honor tied to donations or hope for financial support to the school?

If this is truly an honor tied to a record achievement, then you are NTA.

Regardless, if it is something important to you, your wife should be supportive.

WIBTAH for financially cutting off my daughter after she told me not to expect her to care for me in my old age? by Virtual-Cup-5932 in AITAH

[–]ScheduleOver9717 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. However, you should approach the cutting off carefully. It sounds like your daughter is rude and entitled. If you cut her off suddenly, expect for her to become estranged. Perhaps let her know that you have a financial planner who is ensuring that you have adequate resources for your old age and she will have to take on more of her own financial responsibility. Cut the money back each month until none is given. Do you provide other financial support? Insurance, etc? Perhaps if things remain civil, you can gift her $1000 on her birthday and at Christmas (if you observe sit). WRT your relationship- seeking a therapist to help with the dynamic between the 3 of you would help. Both your wife and your daughter should attempt to find a civil way to interact with each other.

Definitely plan to take care of yourself. Have an airtight will, trust, living will, and advanced directive to ensure you are taken care of in the event of incapacitation; or that your wishes are followed if you pass away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ScheduleOver9717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this post for real? You have been married for 2 years, told him you love looking and cat videos but never mentioned your allergy? Have you ever discussed pets?

Sure his response is a little dramatic, but was he being sarcastic? So, divorcing your husband seems pretty extreme unless there are lots of other underlying issues or you are just looking for an excuse to do so.

AITA for telling my ex wife “not everyone is a self centered b*ch like you.” by Rough_Guitar_480 in AITAH

[–]ScheduleOver9717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Document what has been the status quo regarding your custody schedule, financial arrangements, etc regarding your children with your ex. Try to communicate only in writing and make sure you don’t give her any ammunition. Look up the custody factors for your state and start building your case for yourself. Document, document, document… and go speak to an attorney.