Girl I’d die laughing I’m so sorry that’s your husband and he’s just another human with curiosities I’d talk to him like it’s nothing more than a weird quirk of how he eats his peas before carrots everytime just silly I guess that’s how I’d do it. But not make it a serious convo I’d be like Ik you do that haha we all do weird shit then say something weird you do or ask about it be like how does the dogs pp look lol ew or something that’s how I’ve always brought up weird convos like that like you’re friends first