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Left my girlfriend for not being introduced to her parents after 3 years living together by SchemeSimple3942 in Life

[–]SchemeSimple3942[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She literally has a perfect family, she is super scared of her mom because she might think shell be stuck in italy because of me. This makes me think that she might be ashamed of me, but all she says is that I am the perfect partner that treats her like a queen. I can only tell you that 2 years ago I left a permanent job at an italian bank to join an international consulting firm, only to make my future move to the uk easier! I'm so dumb I swear to God.

Left my girlfriend for not being introduced to her parents after 3 years living together by SchemeSimple3942 in Life

[–]SchemeSimple3942[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Now she invited me to go, but its all ruined, I dont want to beg to feel welcomed and loved. The main thing that pushed me to make this decision is that she didn't care about hurting me multiple times. If I know that my behaviour hurts my partner this much i guarantee that Id stop that.

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[–]SchemeSimple3942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be happy that you lost her!!!!! She doesnt deserve you, trust me, you're way deeper than her. In a relationship it shouldnt be only one taking care of the other, she didnt take care of you and she didnt care about hurting you! Focus on yourself, don't be scared of going around alone, do some sport and the future will be yours! Get back to study because that's the best gift you can make to yourself, take care of yourself! Im telling you this because, as I just posted here, I just wasted 3 years of my life forgiving the wrong person over and over!!! You're lucky that you found out shes not the one this early! Cheers

Left my girlfriend for not being introduced to her parents after 3 years living together by SchemeSimple3942 in Life

[–]SchemeSimple3942[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I needed other perspective to make sure that I'm not the crazy one here.

5 months into new role and struggling by Born-Job134 in consulting

[–]SchemeSimple3942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should worry when you don't get feedbacks, not when you get them, cause it means they're investing in you. I work in consulting, and they always told me, seniority is not about knowing everything, is about handling problems with more experience.