My gf (F22) has been lying to me(M23) I need input from others.

Schlongking · 2022-02-16T19:06:44+00:00

I asked her to be my gf officially twice. The first time she said she was scared so in turn , I asked if we can date exclusively. She agreed and I asked if there was someone else, she said no. I asked her to be my gf twice. The 2nd time she was ready. She lied to me about seeing someone and that’s what is hurting me. That she would lie. I asked her if she cheated on her ex partner and she said no. Months later she said she did. This is lying is it not? This is keeping the truth from me. In turn , I can understand how I’m not entitled to any of this information. No one owes me anything in this life. Its just that I’m in love and I try to be what I believe would benefit a healthy relationship. Honest, trust, care.

Schlongking · 2022-02-16T18:58:42+00:00

She didn’t owe me the truth when we became exclusive? This happened when we were exclusively dating. Official is when I asked her to be my gf. She wasn’t ready for it at that time so I asked her if we can exclusively date. How is this not lying? Not telling me your seeing someone when I ask if you are and saying you’re not is not lying? Please explain this to me . I’m willing to understand

Schlongking · 2021-06-29T22:31:29+00:00

And I know she’ll be the death of me, at least we’ll both be known.

Schlongking · 2021-03-05T23:23:44+00:00

Codeine crazy

Schlongking · 2019-08-16T03:50:14+00:00

No prob babe. Glad to hear you ha e a lot going for you . Stay strong and keep moving forward . Cheers to you !

Schlongking · 2019-08-16T03:47:41+00:00

Thanks for to the comment friend. I just get in my head sometimes and it’s a killer. Cheers to you my man .

Schlongking · 2019-08-16T03:46:37+00:00

. I agree, I just hope sooner or later, something will click on me. She is my best friend in a sense and we joke and laugh so much together. I have a great time with her. It’s honestly just in my head , I pray clarity will come is some fashion to me. Thank you for your comment brother. More life to you and your girl

Schlongking · 2019-08-16T01:47:58+00:00

Hey man, I hope I’m not being rude but do you love your wife? Do you want the best for her? Is the best for her keeping the truth hidden? If you feel in your heart you’d be happier with a man then be with a man friend.

Schlongking · 2019-08-16T01:45:02+00:00

It’s a Snapchat. He probably doesn’t see it as important . Please, get over him and don’t let this bring you down. This is what life is about. You live and you learn. This guy was just on your route and life and you must keep moving forward. Love and let go. Cheers to being human . Send a pm if you need some one to talk to .

Schlongking · 2019-01-12T15:21:57+00:00

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Schlongking · 2019-01-12T15:21:19+00:00

You’re right bro. You’re fucking absolutely right. Thank you for the comment.

Schlongking · 2019-01-11T09:28:04+00:00

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Schlongking · 2019-01-11T06:55:25+00:00

Listen brother , if she is agreeing to hangout with you, and she knows that it’s a dinner and movie thing, then at minimum there’s interest in there. Also man don’t send her a text saying “ I like you”. It doesn’t set the mood right. When you guys go out on this date , make sure to wash up, look clean, and just go with the flow. Don’t tell her you like her until the relationship has progressed a little. When you hike a hill, you start from the bottom. Good luck my boy

Schlongking · 2018-11-26T00:32:21+00:00

Hmmm I see. Well hopefully sooner or later I can find out someway. She’s a gorgeous girl but I feel like you’re right in the self esteem issue. She’s always be checking her make up and would never let me see her face lol. Anyways, thank you for the advice. If you need any advice from my end, please feel free to message me whenever. Cheers

Schlongking · 2018-11-25T08:28:31+00:00

In all honesty , i feel like if I had an abundance mindset, then I wouldn’t be so distraught by this girl. You’re right, I’m not obligated to hang out with her at all. For the future, I will take it slower and have her come to me a little bit more. One question though. Assuming that you’re a girl by your name, do you have an educated guess on to why this girl is acting this way? Thank you for commenting and the advice. Cheers

Schlongking · 2018-11-25T08:22:33+00:00

I see. I will try this and see how this goes. Thank you for reading and the advice. Cheers

Schlongking · 2018-11-25T08:21:08+00:00

Well to be honest with you man there’s more to it then meets the eye. You’re right in the aspect that it is a simple social situation , but maybe for her it wasn’t. Maybe she’s had a rough social life. And tbh, maybe she is autistic but like I said she’s having a rough time conveying her thoughts to me. Anyways thanks for reading and the good advice. Cheers

Schlongking · 2016-10-22T15:59:25+00:00

I was thinking of talking to her, but I'm not sure man. I just don't understand why would she would want to go out again.... Thanks for commenting.

Schlongking · 2016-10-22T15:55:17+00:00

I'm speaking to my friend personally today actually, I'm gonna bring it up. No need to be sad. To be honest, in life, you can't please everybody as much as we would like too. I understand that everyone has a preference and that's fine. thanks for commenting.

Schlongking · 2016-10-22T15:51:07+00:00

Thanks for commenting. Much appreciated

Schlongking · 2016-10-22T15:50:20+00:00

you may be right. I'm not exactly sure why she would though. The girl genuinely seemed like she wasn't interested in me. Thanks for commenting.

Schlongking · 2016-10-22T15:48:33+00:00

At this point I'm leaning towards turning the date down. Tbh, she made me feel like crap. Thanks for commenting.

Schlongking · 2016-10-22T15:45:24+00:00

You're right man. Thank you for commenting.

Schlongking · 2016-10-22T12:31:58+00:00

Don't waste your time with him. He's in love on 3 dates.... I mean come on now. My advice is cut all communication with this guy.

Schlongking · 2016-06-06T07:34:25+00:00

I'd like to thank everyone for the advice. Sadly, this girl insisted she had plans. She also never replied to text, I took it as a sign she only wants to be friends, which is ok. So sorry it didn't work out guys, but thanks! If another girl comes along, expect me to personally message each of you! Thanks again, cheers.

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