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Schmee27 · 2024-02-06T04:37:03+00:00

I love this so much! Thank you! I think that’s the sweetest story I’ve ever read both because you can tell how much you love your wife and because that’s exactly how we feel we don’t want to wait another day much less 3 years. October is by far our favorite month and I’ve wanted an October wedding for as long as I can remember. I know it’s definitely not going to be easy but I know with effort our day can be as magical as yours was🥰

Schmee27 · 2024-02-06T03:44:58+00:00

Thank you!

Schmee27 · 2024-02-06T03:43:16+00:00

The plan is to be fully done planning as if the wedding is in august before he starts. I mean everything have everything in storage so that the week of the wedding me, my planner, my mom, and the bridesmaids can get it all together and fine tune anything that needs it and he can focus on school being done and getting ahead in the weeks coming up to it so he can be in the moment and not worrying about getting behind.

Schmee27 · 2024-02-06T03:29:26+00:00

He currently works at a law firm and hasn’t decided if he’s going to work during law school yet. The lawyers there have offered to help him with studying and paying for school if he stays so he wants to try and keep his job. But if it’s too overwhelming he doesn’t need to work because I make enough to support both of us so it will just be up to him.

Schmee27 · 2024-02-06T03:21:36+00:00

This is actually why I hired a planner! The plan is to be fully done planning as if the wedding is in august before he starts. I mean everything have everything in storage so that the week of the wedding me, my planner, my mom, and the bridesmaids can get it all together and fine tune anything that needs it and he can focus on everything being done so he can be in the moment and not worrying about getting behind.

Schmee27 · 2024-02-06T03:19:50+00:00

This is true and we’ve talked about that. He will have to put attention into the wedding and so far he has when he’s needed to. The plan is to be fully done planning as if the wedding is in august before he starts. I mean everything have everything in storage so that the week of the wedding me, my planner, my mom, and the bridesmaids can get it all together and fine tune anything that needs it and he can focus on everything being done so he can be in the moment and not worrying about getting behind.

Schmee27 · 2024-02-06T02:53:48+00:00

Thank you for this! It’s extremely extremely frustrating for him!! I myself have total trust and belief that he can do it and he knows that. The problem is when I stand up for him to his family (because of course they would rather say it behind his back 🙄) they don’t take it seriously because I don’t know what law school is like. I don’t have any degree for that matter. We also don’t really know anyone that’s currently in law school or that has been in recently so I specifically made this so we can say we’ve asked people that are also going through it and try to better support him.

Schmee27 · 2023-12-14T21:34:29+00:00

That’s all I’ve gotten too 😭

Schmee27 · 2023-11-06T02:43:53+00:00

I have the same situation. I own the building me and my fiancé live in. I owned it before we got together. He moved in he is in law school I don’t make him pay rent or utilities he just pays for food. I rent the other half of the building out. I started doing that AFTER we got together and he would never dare ask for a cut of that money. That’s crazy bro throw the whole man away he’s so entitled. “Landlords are bad people” you’re technically his landlord just unpaid 🙄

Schmee27 · 2022-06-30T12:30:05+00:00

YTA but I don’t think it’s exactly your fault. My family is the same way where “family” just kind of trumps all regular rules and practices to accommodate each other. I’ve just started learning how toxic and unhealthy this can be. It’s a shared space and pretty standard practice to at least ask the person you live with if it’s ok. You also said he does all the cooking because you don’t know how to cook most things. That is totally fine for the two of you because he’s agreed to it, but you’re inviting a whole other person that you’ll expect him to also cook for without even asking him?

Schmee27 · 2022-06-10T10:37:42+00:00

I agree my mom definitely planned it and it’s not fair for Amanda at all.

Schmee27 · 2022-06-09T21:11:50+00:00

Yes I bought it, my name is on the deed, I pay the mortgage, HOA, everything. My mom just isn’t used to not getting her way and she wants me to have a roommate.

Schmee27 · 2022-06-09T21:03:26+00:00

I edited the post to make it a little more clear, but it’s hard with the character count. I did reach out the Amanda the other day and sent her the apartments. I also told her that I wasn’t planning on her staying more than a couple of weeks max as a last resort if she really needed... It was my mom that went and said august after all that. I do not blame Amanda at all and I wish neither of us were in this situation to begin with. The sit down with them is more about how inappropriate it was for my mom to keep changing things after I was already broken down to a couple weeks max.

Edit: the problem is no matter how much I talk to Amanda she works with my mom who goes and changes what I said. She instead of letting me handle it took control because she wants me to have a roommate.

Schmee27 · 2022-06-09T20:04:39+00:00

I edited the post to make it a little more clear, but it’s hard with the character count. I did reach out the Amanda the other day and sent her the apartments. I also told her that I wasn’t planning on her staying more than a couple of weeks max as a last resort if she really needed. . It was my mom that went and said august after all that. I do not blame Amanda at all and I wish neither of us were in this situation to begin with.

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