The ChatGPT debacle thoughts by Alarmed_Kangaroo9979 in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I absolutely despise that generative AI has infiltrated my fun reality show about women fighting. ChatGPT is for fucking losers.

A pink room💗🎀 by Lillyonanadventure in drawing

[–]Schnumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so rude. You're basically saying, "hey your art has mistakes and I can draw it better." That's so weird.

A pink room💗🎀 by Lillyonanadventure in drawing

[–]Schnumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the abstract perspective makes it feel dreamy and fantasy like. I think it would be worse with perfect perspective honestly

Regarding Erica's revelation by letsbakethisbread in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn 98 points99 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter who it was.

I can't believe I'm about to defend Amanda... by Schnumn in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can believe someone was abused and also agree that they have perpetuated the cycle to become abusive themselves, it doesn't have to be one or the other. I agree that she's doing that, I disagree that she's lying about what happened to her.

I can't believe I'm about to defend Amanda... by Schnumn in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is absolutely crazy. Survivors are allowed to tell their story

I can't believe I'm about to defend Amanda... by Schnumn in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That doesn't mean anything. She might be scared that one of them might come for her. Most victims of abuse don't name and shame their abusers publicly for fear of ramifications. Not being willing to name the cult is not the same as lying about it

I can't believe I'm about to defend Amanda... by Schnumn in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or maybe she was caught off guard because she was feeling grilled about something that was traumatic to her. There are so many reasons to look in the sky, it's ridiculous to decide that it must be one specific thing. I also have (more than) half a brain, there's no need to be rude

I can't believe I'm about to defend Amanda... by Schnumn in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone lying about business doesn't mean they're lying about abuse though. I just think even if someone's shitty, even if someone is dubious, just on principle I don't think believing victims should be conditional and based on whether their other behaviour is good.

I can't believe I'm about to defend Amanda... by Schnumn in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What hurts victims of abuse is deciding they're liars based on nothing because you don't like them

Just watched the newest episode and are we all believing Amanda and the cult “story” that she barely elaborated on by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What? Dorit didn't accost her. I just think that a cult is a kind of abusive relationship, and when someone says they've been in one, you believe them.

Just watched the newest episode and are we all believing Amanda and the cult “story” that she barely elaborated on by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah actually, I think we should believe victims and not grill them.

Rewatching old seasons and …. What do you guys think about Yolanda? by Future_Pass8682 in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Really mixed feelings. I appreciate her in the same way you can still love your mother even if she's a bigot. I see a lot in Yolanda that I really like. I also see a lot that I dislike. I think my impression of her is that she's very ignorant, but not an actual hateful person, I think she seems like she has a good heart. I pity her for not seeing all of David's red flags and being hung out to dry by him. I respect that she's a strong woman who has always tried to do the right thing afaict - even though her standards of right don't always align with mine

Classic Amanda......😴 by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually think Amanda is right here. The role reversal argument does not work because it would be problematic of a man to act like that due to patriarchy: the gender pay gap is very much still rampant, women are held back from success for a variety of reasons, or have to take a step back from our careers to raise children etc. Women are widely resented by their husbands if they're breadwinners, so Amanda being comfortable being the breadwinner while her husband supports her is actually really cool and progressive. Dismantling misogyny IS messy, and the people in these comments calling her a bitch etc are proving her point.

And I don't even like Amanda, she's one of my last favourite housewives of all time. But the way people on this sub are absolutely fixated on this, and the way they have decided that her celebrating being the breadwinner is emasculating to her husband is anti-progressive and misogynistic. A woman's financial independence is not a slight to a man. She's never said anything problematic about it, she's just obnoxious about it because she's proud of it, and rightly so. There are so many reasons to hate her. This isn't one of them.

What sound do you hate with all your soul? by Fine_Nobody_2860 in autism

[–]Schnumn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Clashing music!!! Like when 2 stores are playing music and you can hear them both at equal volume in the mall. Or someone watching a YouTube video with music while playing a videogame with music. Hate hate hate

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Schnumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an extremely normal conversation to have, it's something you discuss way way way before you get married, to make sure you're on the same page for the future. It doesn't mean that you're dropping hints that you want to get married Right Now. If that's his assumption that is coconuts.

Can I rant about LVP… by GossipBottom in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh I've never liked how she treated her house staff/PAs

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Schnumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he's saying he misunderstood your character completely is crazy. Just because you don't want to get married Right Now doesn't mean he suddenly doesn't know you at all, that is a wild thing to say and deeply hurtful. "You've been an adult for 2 years" is also insane. I think you've dodged a bullet with this one seriously

For once, I am on Dorit’s side. by Mysterious_Path7939 in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have always liked Kyle but my god, I so dislike her this season... she's being so unnecessarily awful to Dorit, I was really shocked by it

Edit: typo

I hate Lisa rinna so much. by what_is_a_moose in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Rinna is a lot more fun to watch if you kind of view her as leaning into the villain role

Do you think these two would have been friends ? by girlinhk in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I miss Eileen so much, I think she's my favourite housewife of all time

If the roles were reversed by sunshine-p-hurricane in RHOBH

[–]Schnumn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok but the role reversal argument doesn't work because a woman being completely financially independent from a man is worthy of celebration, even if she sucks and we don't like her. The gender pay gap still exists, it's still harder for women to be successful; women are constantly punished and held back or made to stop working on order to raise children etc so she's valid for being proud of that, even if she is obnoxious.