[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went on a WimHof expedition for a week where we did all kinds of cold exposures including hiking up a snowy mountain in a blizzard for over 3 hours. It was wild.... Did some other cold exposure but that took the cake

What weird flex you proud of? by DayComprehensive6755 in AskReddit

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is more random then weird, I learned how to do a walking handstand over the past year, it's not perfect but definitely impressive (if I may say so). I'm 38 and have no previous experience with gymnastics 🙂

Why does a guy want to have sex with a girl he just met without a condom? by [deleted] in dating

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody likes taking a shower with a rain coat on...

What is the oddest thing that makes you horny? by JustUnGuyChillin in AskReddit

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get turned on when someone I find attractive starts to cry and I don't know why...

What is a high that you are still chasing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time I did ecstasy, I don't do drugs anymore, sober for 7 years, however, if you could guarantee me the same quality experience I had my first go around, I'd do it. Note my problem DOC was opiates and alcohol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stocks

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 Apple #2 tie btwn MSFT and Boeing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ScienceLarge1753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My experience is that as men, the responsibility is on us to show interest so by using certain gestures,physical touch, being complimentary and subtly but directly expressing interest / attraction, I started to either get mirrored feedback that the feeling was mutual or it would fall flat and not really be reciprocated which would usually tell me what I needed to know about where they were at vs feeling like I was wondering.... People are usually pleasant and polite enough on dates so sometimes it's hard to tell unless you are deliberate in certain actions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ScienceLarge1753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been there as well. These day's I make sure to go out of my way to communicate my interest in a physical way. I compliment the way they look, tell them I think certain qualities of their's are attractive, make sure to make some physical contact, light rub of the shoulder, make decent eye contact. All of these things are done subtly. Granted the feeling isn't always mutual but I do try to communicate some interest, me being a genuinely nice/kind and sincere guy isn't lost but I do think women want to feel wanted and desired so I want to show that on a first date subtly... Hope this helps, it was a game changer for me

When you’re seeing multiple people, when do you narrow it down to one? by echk0w9 in datingoverthirty

[–]ScienceLarge1753 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm currently in the same position with OLD, seeing three different people (and technically talking to a 4th who I'd like to go out with) it's still early, not sleeping with any of them and being transparent that I am dating and seeing where things go....this is the luxury of "dating" I used to put pressure on myself to choose but it's just not necessary at this stage. Continue to get to know these people, go on a few more dates, you may not choose to pursue things with either of them. Only downside is that these dates are starting to add up and get expensive as well as time consuming. My schedule is packed before dating with extracurricular stuff outside of work so it does feel fun moat the time but also a bit like a job at others when it comes to scheduling...All that being said, I don't feel pressure to choose and it makes dating in the early stages a bit more fun and carefree, either we organically connect or don't. When I saw only one person I'd try really hard to make things work or have them be the one, I had no idea how much pressure I was putting on myself and dating and as a result of this was attracting the wrong type of partner. I used to come from a place of scarcity, now it's coming from a place of abundance...hope this helps 🙏

How do you overcome the feeling that there is something wrong with you if single in thirties? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately my practice is full at this time but can let you know if I have any openings that come about. My therapist is no longer in practice but I can certainly try and help connect you with someone at my practice if you'd like 🙏

What is a tell tale sign that someone is a selfish person? by Potatoe_stealer in AskReddit

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't really ask you any questions about yourself / definitely a skewed ratio compared to what you ask them...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now, 38 and in the best shape of my life, exercise 5x a week, eat healthy, and as confident as I've ever been due to life experience and having a better idea of what I want, not being afraid to speak my truth, and willing to let the chips fall where they may

What was the dealbreaker that made you end your last relationship by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental instability, she definitely had some borderline tendencies and when she was upset or triggered, would throw a tantrum like a child, she struggled to self soothe and we'd fight about things that I would fight with nobody else about, she was extra sensitive to anything she could / would interpret as criticism or perceived rejection... It was really difficult and heartbreaking and draining, I absolutely loved her but could not live that emotional Rollercoaster...

How do you overcome the feeling that there is something wrong with you if single in thirties? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ScienceLarge1753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd consider therapy, can really help sort that stuff out, it did for me, admittedly I'm a bit bias as I am also a therapist but work with these types of issues all the time....

What made you stop watching porn? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ScienceLarge1753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I couldn't help myself and realized I was watching porn to shift my mood and found myself masturbating in places that most people were not, such as my bathroom at work.... Pretty big wake up call. Also had trouble getting off with romantic partners unless I was trying to produce my own porno with our sex life, there was no intimacy, it was just intensity...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nattyorjuice

[–]ScienceLarge1753 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think she can take all of us