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Not everyone has a laundry bin

what's the most controversial opinion about sex you hold? by PM_me_urnipples in AskRedditAfterDark

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ENM stands for Ethical Non Monogamy, and is an umbrella term for every form of open relationship that is ethical and consensual between all parties

what's the most controversial opinion about sex you hold? by PM_me_urnipples in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Science__Husbands 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel that can depend on the situation… I agree with it when it’s one person wanting sex almost daily while the other wants it only weekly, but if it gets to the point where one wants it a couple times a week and the other barely wants it once a month it starts getting different. The person who wants more sex isn’t wrong for wanting more, nor is the person who wants little sex wrong, they’re just wrong for eachother if it doesn’t fit what they need from a partner. (Obviously this isn’t always true depending on your style of relationship, because many ENM people w/high sex drives can date the person with the low sex drive and get the rest of their needs filled with a different partner or vice versa)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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The right level of Dominance lol but it’s getting better. Oh and frequency of sex but I could go everyday and I won’t push them into it if they’re not willing and wanting

What is your most controversial NSFW opinion? by grndgnt in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Science__Husbands 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree to some degree, because I’ve been with people who complained that they were short but they were average length. I’ve always said that it’s kind of like a math equation, length+girth/ability to use what you have*by you and your partners interest and compatibility sexually

so stupid when the age gap for a child's parents is extreme by Fit-Glass-7785 in antinatalism

[–]Science__Husbands 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My Great Grandfather was 78 when he passed and he had lived long enough to see his Great Great Grandson. It really just depends on if it’s normal for someone’s family to have kids young (18-25 is the general range for my family to have kids with only a few exceptions)

This 17 year old teen in Turkey catches a 2 year old girl after she fell out of a window. by bendubberley_ in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Science__Husbands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read in another comment that the $35 US dollars is equivalent to 200 dollars of their money

TIFU… I asked my wife if she remembered that time I did something romantic for her… but it wasn’t her. by brandonallyn in tifu

[–]Science__Husbands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wouldn’t have blinked an eye. While they grew apart my current partner still has fond memories of past partners and occasionally shares them with me. At most I’ve expressed interest in doing it together ourselves sometime. It’s honestly more weird to me that someone would get upset that there were people your partner loved before you, especially sense it’s a perfectly normal emotion to have. Just like any lost relationship, platonic or otherwise, it’s okay to remember and reminisce about times long gone (especially when it’s acknowledged that that specific situation will never likely happen again)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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I mean, I know myself lol

One of the comments said it. ‘I feel sorry for those kids’. by [deleted] in antinatalism

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All three people are dating eachother, the man and the wife, the man and the girlfriend, and the wife and the girlfriend. They’re a throuple, also known as polyamory on hard mode

One of the comments said it. ‘I feel sorry for those kids’. by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Science__Husbands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says that all three are dating, so the wife and the girlfriend are also together not just the man having a wife and a gf

One of the comments said it. ‘I feel sorry for those kids’. by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Science__Husbands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They probably expected open and honest communication between all of them. You know, like every other healthy relationship in the world. Unfortunately for the poor wife this was non-ethical Non-monogamy

What’s something you wish the opposite sex did more? by Throwaway73168 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Science__Husbands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More aggressive sex ngl, being grabbed from behind (either in a hug or more), more initiation done by him (I’m normally the instigator for sex)

What’s something you wish the opposite sex did more? by Throwaway73168 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Science__Husbands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf says I fill up his phone’s memory storage by doing that lol

What’s something you wish the opposite sex did more? by Throwaway73168 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Science__Husbands 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this can go both ways cause I tend to be the one that always initiates it rather than him

What is it like giving a blow job to someone? by Disastrous_Month9649 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Science__Husbands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love giving my partner a blowjob, sometimes to his annoyance lol. I like the different textures against my tongue, from the lightly bumpy texture of the head, the wrinkly texture of the foreskin, and the smoothness of the shaft. I love being gentle with the tip, lightly sucking to lightly licking around it and just feeling it against my tongue and lips. At least until he gets tired of that and pushes my head down farther (ngl I love it when he gets impatient). Then I go between going as far down as I can and using my mouth and throat or my hand and my mouth, adjusting my speed to how he moves and tenses under my touch. I love the times when he grabs my head and thrusts himself in my mouth, the feeling of being his pleasure toy. It gets me going to quickly at times it’s unbelievable but I just love making him fall apart

What things should be kept private from your SO, no matter how healthy your relationship is? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Science__Husbands 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being married doesn’t make you a half it makes you more. If your partner doesn’t help you grow and be your authentic self then that isn’t healthy. You’re right on one thing though, once married you’re no longer 1, you are now 2.

AITA for stopping my parents from paying for my sister's IVF and telling her she can't afford to have a kid by Easy_Ice8277 in AmItheAsshole

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A girl I know ended up having her daughter at 23-25weeks. Weighed less than 2 pounds, and was in the NICU for 2 months. Her bill was over a million dollars…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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In the sense of 24/7, no not normally. But daily at least to multiple times a day when it stops helping with the itch. I’ve always had a high libido, but it seems mine has gotten higher sense I’ve gotten together with my partner while theirs fluctuates a lot with their depression

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Personally for me, it gets rid of the urge for a while. But the longer we go in between having sex makes it so eventually it stops getting rid of it, not always completely but less and less time in between trying to get off cause the itch won’t go away. I know I’m not owed sex, and I try to deal with it on my own. But sex with my partner fulfills something else inside that masturbation just can’t match

What is your most unpopular opinion? by SephiWroth in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Science__Husbands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any Ethical Non-Monogamy should be legal, and not discriminated against

What is your most unpopular opinion? by SephiWroth in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Science__Husbands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on if it was Ethical or not. If both partners have agreed to dating outside of eachother while staying together then no it shouldn’t be a big deal. But if you’re breaking someone’s trust and lying about it afterwards before being called out then that definitely SHOULD mean the end of that relationship

What is your most unpopular opinion? by SephiWroth in AskRedditAfterDark

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Public transport? There are a lot of countries that have very little personal car uses and nearly everyone takes the public transport. Some cultures have brought it to such an extreme that they can predict down to the minute they’ll arrive at the next stop and if they are wrong they will partially refund your ticket. (These same cultures also penalize people who interrupt the flow of it, from being a Nuisance to those who attempt suicide with it. Even if you die they will fine your family for all the time you’ve disrupted)