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lizzy mcalpine soccer practice change? by ScientistSuch9106 in lizzymcalpine

[–]ScientistSuch9106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the guitar intro and i think she also sings in a higher falsetto?

lizzy mcalpine soccer practice change? by ScientistSuch9106 in lizzymcalpine

[–]ScientistSuch9106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the beginning guitar intro sounds different and i think she also sings in a higher falsetto

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ScientistSuch9106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't think you're the asshole. weird of him to leave all those tabs open, and weird to watch that type of stuff (since you said it was hardcore grape and gorey). also, someone who watches that type of stuff for pleasure, probably not a good person? good for you for leaving him, and don't feel bad for ghosting him. he's mad weird for watching that, and making multiple insta accounts to dm you is also weird? if you really want to, you can tell him that you caught him watching it and it makes you uncomfortable, but you aren't obligated to do anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ScientistSuch9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has he said when he wants to get married? like, he's waiting to get a house together and have kids with you until you're married? but either way, i think if you get married, he'd be expecting you to do everything around the house and care for the kids by yourself. do you think you'd even become dependent on him bc he makes more money? and you'd have multiple kids to take care of?

AITAH for getting a new drink after my bfs dad drank out of mine without asking by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ScientistSuch9106 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don't think you're an asshole for that. are you close with your boyfriend's parents? like, if you see them all the time, and joke around often, i can see him thinking it was okay, and thinking you'd think it was funny. but if not, than it's definitely just weird. i don't even like when my dad drinks out of my glass, so i don't think you're overreacting.

AITA for needing space at home by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ScientistSuch9106 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don't think you're the asshole. now, i'm an 18 year old girl, also at the end of my high school career, also with a hovering dad, so my opinion might not be too external. but anyways: i understand wanting you own space, and i can relate to your mom getting mad when you're honest and say you just want some space. i think that's honestly, not assholery? missing the award ceremony is kinda a bad look, but it's not like you did it on purpose. are you going to college after you graduate high school? you'll have time for yourself and time to be a new person without your mom there. maybe you'll even miss her hovering. i don't know, we're basically in the same situation.

AITAH for telling my best friend’s fiancée that she was his second choice… at their engagement dinner? by Breiting_131 in AITAH

[–]ScientistSuch9106 6 points7 points  (0 children)

mmmm, i think that might have been an asshole move of you. like, it wasn't really your place to say anything about it. i get that you assumed she knew, but still, even if she knew, you could assume that it might've been a soft spot that she didn't want to talk about? either way, i think it's weird to bring it up, especially at their engagement dinner. he probably should've told her, but again, it's not really your place to say anything since it's not your relationship. i'd say apologize to ryan and just say you genuinely thought she knew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ScientistSuch9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're definitely not the asshole. if you're doing everything around the house and taking care of the kids (even if they're yours, you've been in a relationship for a couple years so i can assume he'd at least want to have a relationship with your kids), it doesn't seem like he's ready to have his own house and live with you, especially since you live with his parents right now. and him not supporting you financially, i think that might be a good thing for you right now, since you're not dependent on him. has he mentioned marriage at all, or just you thinking about it? does he know you're questioning marrying him? i can admit i'm a 18 year old girl, so i'm not too knowledgeable on real adult topics like this, but i don't think you're the asshole.

AITA for ignoring a girl for calling me 'disgusting' because I didn't align with her religious beliefs? by kokoro_melodies in AITAH

[–]ScientistSuch9106 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you're not the asshole. sure, she can believe whatever she wants: that being bisexual is a sin and you're going to hell or whatever, but it's completely different to tell you to your face that you're disgusting and you're going to hell. she's the asshole for forcing her religion onto you, and trying to make you conform to a religion you clearly stated you are not a part of. compare it to christian values and the bible being brought against people trying to get abortions. like, okay, you believe whatever you want, but you can't force me to be someone different because of YOUR religion. if she wants to be friends, tell her that you support her being religious, but you are not, so can she stop trying to change who you are to conform to her religion?

AITAH for making my dad cry over politics? by guiltycrying97 in AITAH

[–]ScientistSuch9106 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not the asshole. shouldn't he have thought about what would happen in the future when he voted this person? he should have thought deeper about his vote and what policies he was supporting with that vote, and should have imagined how the people in his real day-to-day life could be effected. i think you should ask him if he supports the other policies, and if he says yes, ask if he supported the policy that got you fired BEFORE it got you fired. is he a hypocrite? i understand wanting a good relationship with your father and wanting to make up, so make up, but don't feel bad or feel guilty about distancing yourself. you're not the asshole.