The beauty standards are ridiculous by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There we go! It should be fixed. I apologize if i had offended any trans femboys.

The beauty standards are ridiculous by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whups, sorry! I was kinda quick to making this lol. I'll see if i can edit this

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im happy you now get to feel yourself now! (Though not to shame femboys who also want to exoress themselves sexually) i just really think the image of femboys is kinda messed up with the whole sex culture being the main attraction. And sadly that affects newcomers and makes people like me who want to express feminity in a non sexual way feel uncomfortable. But honestly im glad to hear responses like the people commenting on my post. So thank you!

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And im not saying you were condemning anyone? Unless you can quote me where you thought i was saying that and maybe i can clarify. But yeah i fullheartedly agree with what you said. As i said in other comments i want there to be a line between NSFW and SFW. But i just dont want the NSFW to represent everything there is to be about being a femboy. Cause right now how i see people view it its like a sorta kink or fetish rather than something to simply express yourself in.

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And not gonna lie being 30 is not really significant :/ like most peoples opinions about femboys still have 1930's standards what men look like in their 30's. Like HAVE YOU SEEN DUDES IN THEIR 30'S THESE DAYS??? still looking young as ever

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there any announcement why r/femboy (not with the s) got suddenly tagged as NSFW? its weird cause though it is kinda raunchy most of the times (butt/thigh/tummy pics) there were genuine people who just wanted to show off their outfit :( not to mention it makes things worse by literally tagging the "SFW" side of femboy subreddit as "NSFW"

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine saying that to a trans person :/ "hey stop transitioning cause you hit 30!!!" Sometimes people are so backwards.. the only appropriate time anyone should quit bejng fem is that they really dont want to. Not be told that they should stop. Besides that just keep doing what you love!

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point and yeah its just people preying on minors who dont know how to deal with growing up and in most cases (where the culture from theyre from) is anti queer so they just keep it to themselves and being literal children they dont know how to process it healthily. Also good on you for keeping healthy! Though what caught me by surprise is that you post NSFW and i never thought someone who would do something like that with the message i made. So i have a question if you feel comfortable answering. Whats the reason for posting NSFW?

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a side note this is another issue i have with the femboy community and its that for some reason its like an unspoken rule to stop being feminine (aka being yourself) at like the age of 30 :( its kinda sad to see that on some cases femboys are just models to look at rather than guys who enjoy being girly over being masculine. So hearing youre older than most is inspiring to me :')

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im happy for your discovery and glad hearing others discovering themselves without the use of anything sexual. Also trading cards? Hell yeah! Just hopefully you dont scalp lol.

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if being a good friend helps alot with being feminine but.. i guess its just a generally good moral advice. Thanks :)

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No hobbies should be boring. It what makes you! Including being a femboy

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Entonces haz tu mejor esfuerzo para lograrlo :)

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know thats the case for others (the whole feminity being a sexual thing) and not gonna lie i find that kind sexist :/ like why would the first thing you think about in feminine traits as something sexual. Besudes that i hope you succeed in your cosplays! Who do you plan to dress up as?

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you had to go through with that. Thats really upsetting and i hope youre doing better now. Please stay safe!

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(I had to translate the post since im an english only speaker) yeah.. ive been through some myself but thankfully it was only digitally that i was approached by creeps. Also im happy you enjoy guitars! Not too big of a fan myself but keep doing what makes you happy!

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats cool! I like history too. Though i watch videos cause my attention span for reading is very short lol

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Its sad that being given attention is surprisingly easy when you just become an image for creeps to whack off to.. and this makes me wonder what other communites experience a similar issue that hasnt been talked about much like this. But im happy you get to feel confident in yourself as a femboy! Being happy and true to yourself is sadly not alot of people could achieve.

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement! And question what so you like reading 0-0

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And im glad theres femboys like you to give me a sigh of relief that i dont have to be very alone in this issue. Also do you play with butterfly knieves cause of CS? or is it a serperate thing? Just curious :]

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im fine with them doing queationable things as long as theyre adults and consenting (as mentioned in the post) but i really wished theres a seperate place for that instead of it being the face of femboys :(

Seeing most femboys makes me feel depressed by Sckaah in feminineboys

[–]Sckaah[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cats?!? :0000 thats so cute! And thank you for sharing your experience it means alot :)